2007-03-17 00:32:17 · 3 answers · asked by ice_croller 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
try playing doubles on a grass court
2007-03-17 00:36:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
This is a fool's question asked in a kiddish manner. First of all you need to grow up and ask things directly not finding out alternatives, and the second thing that if you want to date a same sex, go ahead, there is nothing bad in it. Also depends upon the society you live in. If you care too much about the society you can not express your feelings.
Finally, go ahead and do what you want, it will give you satisfaction that you did what you wanted and you will not regret it.
God bless you both.
2007-03-17 09:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sam- the "big boss" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Presuming you mean dating, I can't give you a precise answer because society and the human animal are so complex. But I do have some observations.
Most folks develop their dating skills as teenagers in high school and then hone them as they grow older. But most gay folks don't come out until their college years so they're already lagging behind their straight counterparts in dating skills. Add to that our instant gratification society (fast food, high-speed internet, instant downloads, etc) and people have lost the patience required to get to know someone, instead relying on snap judgements based on what they think they want (he's too fat, too skinny, too femme, etc). And on top of both of those, part of the coming out process often involves seeking out as many gay experiences as possible, often leading to the image of gay people as being promiscous when in fact they are no more promiscous than their straight counterparts, just at a later point in their life. Sadly, some gay people get stuck in that experimentation phase and never move beyond to develop stronger relationships because they lack the dating skills to do so.
As homosexuality gains greater acceptance, things may change. But from reading the many questions here from gay teens seeking advice on how to approach someone, we're not there yet.
Be patient. You will find someone who wants to know you longer than an evening.
Keep trying.
2007-03-17 08:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by dougeebear 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋