I work with this girl. REALLY LIKE HER
She shows me all the signs of being interested in me.
(clumsy around me n stealing glances. the whole eye contact game, look at me then look away really fast b/c she thinks I noticed, and MOST OF ALL PLAYING HARD TO GET sometimes)
I TRIED ASKING HER OUT COUPLE OF TIMES.
No, she didn't say NO, but BUT DIDN'T WORK (BAD TIMMING)
next time (NOT FREE)
AND I CAN'T ASK HER OUT AGAIN.
I ALREADY CALLED HER FEW TIMES THIS WEEK.
I JUST CALLED HER AGAIN. AND SAID. "HEY, IT'S YOU? I THOUGHT I CALLED MY FRIEND". and she sound like she was on bed. so I said " Sorry if you were sleeping" she said "it's ok, I was just laying" and I said "sorry, I try to voice command my friend but my phone dialed ur #"
SHOULD I TEXT HER TOMOROW AND SAY SORRY? (TOO DESPRIATE? OR GOOD B/C I’M SHOWING INTEREST)
I DON'T KONW WHAT TO DO. PLEASE HELP.
SHE SEEMS VERY INTRESTED AT WORK, BUT SHE DOSEN'T REALLY TALK ON THE PHONE. OR SEEMS LIKE SHE WANTS TO TALK ABOUT GOING OUT.
2007-03-16 22:30:43 · 11 answers · asked by S. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop calling her. and texting. this is the rule of dating: u make an appointment for a date. if she says she is busy/not free/have to go to doctor blah blah blah she HAS TO MAKE ANOTHER APPOINTMENT HERSELF. if she is interested. it should be like this:hei, how about going out on friday evening?" "o, i am sorry, i can't, i already have made plans with my friends. how abut we go out on saturday evening/next friday evening/meet sunday during day for brunch etc"
however, if she just says she is busy without making any appointment it is like half red flag. u might ask her out again ONLY ONCE after that. if she again excuses herself being busy or anything else u do not, i repeat DO NOT humiliate yourself further no matter how much u like her. her interest level is below´ the lowest point, she will not go out with u anyway, the only thing u achieve will be seeming clingy and boring and she will lose her interest even more. so stop calling her. go out with someone else. if she wants u she will call u herself
2007-03-16 22:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa Whoa Whoa...
Calm Down MAN!
If you really like this girl then play along with her. She is either playing with you or too scared to admit she likes you. Show her that you are willing to leave her alone if she doesn't let her intentions be known..
You HAVE to be able to control the urge to call her. When you talk to her tease her a little and talk about a girl you just met. "I just met this girl who taught me what split ends look like and DAMN! you are a museum!"
Use that line as long as she isn't a sensitive girl. Make it known that you aren't stuck on her..The second she knows that you would be with her over anyone is the second you become "Just Friends"
If you have asked her out...DONT DO IT AGAIN...She rejected you homie..Let go of the fact that you even want her..Act like it doesn't matter...Yeah, you want alot of girls..Why is she special?
You could probably answer that question but that's the attitude you need! A "I won't die if I don't see you" kind of attitude that not too many men have around women they like.
Hope It Helps!
Quantum
2007-03-16 22:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its an excuse. If a guy is your boyfriend and he would not refer to you for a pair of weeks both hes dishonest on you or jacking off to porn on the information superhighway. Face it, a guy should be demanding if his chick is dishonest on him in the journey that they have got not talked for a pair weeks. If hes no longer demanding over that threat, he would not care. now to not say that you're a free floozy, yet women human beings have needs too (no longer basically sexually). If he wont bypass on walks, bypass to dinner, a movie, or some thing like that then you definately may nicely be on the seek for someone who will.
2016-12-02 03:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop behaving like a kid man.Calling someone n giving an excuse of a wrong no.,irritates a lot.So dnt throw axe on ur own foot.
Hmm girls normally dnt like desperate guys.Dnt show her about your feelings so early.If really she have something 4 u she'll react otherwise forget her may be shez going around wid someone else.
Avoid her she'll react.
2007-03-16 23:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably shes already going around with someone! thats why at work shes jus playin with you and wen u call her she shows no interest at all....so better not to show ur desperate. Just stay away from her for a while and see wht n how she reacts like!
2007-03-16 22:38:06 · answer #5 · answered by dreamgurl_01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uve got an interesting situation,
no don't text her or call her,
cause u seem desperate, and girls don't like desperate guys,
shes different at work then she is on the phone, cause maybe shes shy,
or maybe she doesn't want that kind of relationship with u yet,
2007-03-16 22:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by emzisebastain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop callling her and continue the little games at work - the cookie will crumble one way or another. I mean, you will know for sure at some time
2007-03-16 22:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started reading, but stopped because I don't like the over usage of Caps. Maybe you should try being more mature.
2007-03-16 22:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by 9987 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her again. i have a feeling shes gettin seriously pissed of with you so be a man and ask her out again and if she says no be a baby and pull the pity card. LOL
2007-03-16 22:48:45 · answer #9 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. Have some balls. If you can't even be honest that you called her you've got no hope.
2007-03-16 22:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋