im just a simple person and try find a better place to go...
2007-03-16 22:15:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't see through them.
2007-03-16 22:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go of thinking that who you are as a person being real is the truth. Let go of any meaning, words or actions you may not even be aware of that you've created as being real. Let go of trying to be right about whether a person is being real. You see, consciously or not you've made "a person being real" mean something. Sound crazy? Try and catch who you are being next time you meet a person. Are you really listening to the person or are you listening to the person and waiting for what you know to be "true" the person is real or not????? It is very hard but be committed to meet people as a person rid of any meaning to what's real that creates possibility for authentic encounters in your life and the lives of others!
2007-03-17 06:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by nmyopinion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell that anyone is real. You just have to get to know people before you can figure that out.
Sad that it's come to sizing people up, but honestly who shows thier true self off the get-go. A very few of us. People like to hide behind a persona, which is fine... but when it all comes down to it your friends will be the ones that are real & you can trust. Everyone else is just someone to talk to.
Know that every person you meet is a part of the puzzle, but learn not to trust off the get-go... that doesn't mean it's not fun to meet new people & have a friendship within limits.
I can still have fun with someone & not be convinced if their being completely honest with me. It is what it is. Then you know what to expect & the amount of time you spend with that person will depend on your comfort level after that origional impression. Relax, be yourself & trust your instincts.
2007-03-17 05:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by mrauscher74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only person who will know if the person that you meet is real.
2007-03-17 05:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hummm....try touching them and finding out if they won't melt. Works every time.
You can usually notice the fake ones from the real ones.....pay close attention
2007-03-17 05:20:58 · answer #5 · answered by Nini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By their actions, their ability to reason or lack of it, their morals and ethics, and their ability to recognize and respect others beliefs
2007-03-17 05:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that the person you meet is real, then,,,, he is
2007-03-17 05:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by Edrew c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. because you see this person, right? if it was a ghost, you wouldn't be able to see them, right?
2007-03-17 05:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋