the love of my life just broke up with me.....we had this whole plan about getting marroed and he just dumped me and cheated on me but i still love him
2007-03-16 21:54:39 · 11 answers · asked by WOAHbabay its krissy! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its normal to feel emo at this point after a breakup. that guy cheated on you! he's not worth it. forget about him.
Your love for him will fade away. keep reminding yourself that he cheated on you and betrayed your trust.You should enjoy your freedom now that u're single!
2007-03-16 21:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by Grace 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please, dont ever get depressed and emo over a scumbag like him, he's not worth it to be crying over. Never be too naive when it comes to guys saying about marriage and being with you forever and stuff like that because usually it wont happen, unless the dude has known you for a long time and then told you that. You never know what happens in the future even if you think he is the love of your life. Just know that there are jerks that can lie to you and will cheat on you, so you have to be alert on that. Its when you fall too deeply in love, you'll become vulnerable. Anyway, dont be emoo over this jerk. There are so many better guys out there for you. Be happy because life is too short. Dont waste time thinking about him, spend more time enjoying the single life now!
2007-03-17 05:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by =) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why change yourself just because of ONE guy I know that your hurt but seriously hun I have been there and done that & it doesnt work cause at the end of the day that hurt is still gonna be there, why dwell on it when you can find someone else WAY better , hes out there you just gotta give him a chance.
And remember its your ex's loss not your's cause its him that misses out on what you have 2 offer, luckily theres some one else out there who is willing 2 give you the same amount of love that you would give in return.
Good luck and all the best
2007-03-17 05:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry , there really isn't anything I can say to make you feel better. I know how you feel. my first love and only love thus far cheated on me several times and I finally broke up with him. All I can say is the pain will go away. Be sad for now, play sad music, eat a milk shake if you want, watch sad movies.
2007-03-17 05:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by starystorms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club.......................
I went thru this 6 yrs back with my GF and to make matters worse my GF loved me, still loves me but never married me becos of family problems..
Unfortunately there are no shortcuts ....u will feel right now as if u will forever miss him , as if he will never go away and as if he will always be in your system, your home and in your mind BUT all this will grdually fade away and the operative word here is GRADUALLY.
Meanwhile do all the correct things .......get busy , go shop , spend time with your friends and your hobbies and your pets etc etc and etc .....
Remember two things ;-\
1. This is not gonna go in a hurry .
2. This will surely go away.
May GOD and your friends give u strength becos I know exactly how it feels......
2007-03-17 05:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight, you were faithful to him and he cheated on you! Sounds to me like he was the one who lost out in this break-up.
Instead of being Emooo you should feel sorry for the next female he suckers into believing he loves them. Be thankful you didn't get married then realize the kind of person he really is.
2007-03-17 05:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by Rustb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be emooooo...be realistic...what do u want to do with someone who dumped u and cheated on u? c'mon im sure u are a very nice person and pretty...move on and find someone who will love u and respect you...dont settle as second best...
2007-03-17 05:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious you still love him? hun, wake up this man cheated,lied,and left you, you deserve so much better. You just don't want to be alone, it will be hard at first but forget him, please for your sake.
2007-03-17 04:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you had the whole plan about getting married.
he obviously had other priorities.
2007-03-17 05:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget abt him and enjoy your freedom now.
2007-03-17 05:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋