i really like this girl and we talk almost everyday on aim and myspace we say we love each other all the time but im too scared to hang out with her at school and i really want her as a gf but i want one that can last a long time idk what to do i really love her should i hang out with her at school more then talk to her on aim? she makes me feel amazing when i talk to her but then i get really scared help me outttt what do i do make a move as soon asap????
2007-03-16 21:34:00 · 10 answers · asked by nathanxcore6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really like this girl and we talk almost everyday on aim and myspace we say we love each other all the time but im too scared to hang out with her at lunch at school because i dont know if her friends will like me and apparently i guess friends tell whos best for her and idk if im good enough :[ i really want her as a gf but i want one that can last a long time idk what to do i really love her should i hang out with her at school more then talk to her on aim? she makes me feel amazing when i talk to her but then i get really scared help me outttt what do i do make a move as soon asap????
2007-03-16 21:48:48 · update #1
Hmm. Sounds like your shy. She's probably shy too, and is wondering why you aren't making a move.
Why don't you ask her to hang out at your place instead of hanging out with her at school.
You can say you want her help with your myspace page or something. Maybe you can ask her to take some new pictures of you or something.
Good Luck. Don't worry, relationships get easier with time, even for shy people. I totally understand the whole shyness thing. It makes life all the more difficult, especially when it comes to dating.
2007-03-16 21:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by Canadian Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with her in person; it doesn't matter where. If anything, try talking to her less online. There's a huge difference between a relationship on the internet and out in the real world. I knew quite a few people who technically 'dated' and though they lived near each other, they really didn't communicate except for on the computer and their relationships really don't work out. You need to be able to spend time with someone instead of sitting in silence for hours, going your separate ways, and then typing all night. Chances are that you'll figure out pretty quickly if you really do love her or if things aren't how they seem to be now. You'll never know if you don't try, and you don't want to spend the rest of your life regretting not having given her a shot. Good luck!
2007-03-17 04:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by melis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. take things slow. dont rush into asking her out if you barely talk to her in person. ask to hangout more often in shcool. maybe you should say hi to her in the halls every time you see her. have a smile and maybe say her name. because girls lke that. also maybe have lunch together at school. share a conversation. see if you have the same connection online as offline. when you think everything is just right. ask her out. maybe hanging out in the weekend. or movies. if she really enjoys it and shows signs that she really likes you. maybe ask to be her boyfriend. i hope that would help you. good luck
2007-03-17 04:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says she loves you then go ahead and hang out with her at school.
2007-03-17 04:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach her and talk to her. you said you love each other. now is the time to test that. talk to her and hang out with her.
2007-03-17 04:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would ask her out! :)
You'll never know, until you try, and if you don't do it you're gonna regret it all your life. What if something happens to her tomorrow (god forbid!) and you say " if only i would of...".
Don't live for tomorrow what you can do today! :)
2007-03-17 04:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by Traveling girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better ask her before you lose out a chance. n
2007-03-17 04:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel about her. Take her out. Don't be scared.
He who will not risk, cannot win.
2007-03-17 07:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by Fred W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach her now don wait till tomorrow.
2007-03-17 04:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh!
What a love story!!!
U r really in love!!!
Go a head~~~
Best of luck!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-17 04:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋