2007-03-16 21:19:22 · 8 answers · asked by xoxjaime06xox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This isn't an uncommon problem. Usually it happens due to decreased sensitivity when the condom is on. Try getting ultra-thins [if you're willing to spend a little extra, Kimono brand ultra-thins are usually considered some of the best]. The condom isn't as thick so there will be more sensation for him. Also, make sure you don't have 'extended pleasure' condoms; they actually contain a numbing agent which can definitely interfere with things.
Does he get soft right away? Putting on a condom can seem like an unsexy thing to a lot of guys. Help him out [though make sure you know how to do it properly too]; either just put it on by hand or learn how to unroll it down his penis with your mouth. I know quite a few guys who go nuts for that one. HOWEVER, if you do this, do NOT use teeth. Teeth can lead to either condom breakage or [if you bear down way too hard] a very unhappy boyfriend.
If neither of these work, try talking to him. Does he know why he's getting soft? It might help him adjust if he masturbates with a condom on. And if it still doesn't work, try going to a local clinic and asking if they have any advice. Don't be embarrassed; they've heard everything.
Good luck, and keep staying safe.
2007-03-16 21:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by melis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh!! I'm sorry. Maybe he's just under alot of pressure like he feels like he has to perform. Which we all do. Maybe is just cuts off too much circulation. Try getting larger condoms. They come in bigger sizes.
2007-03-17 04:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by spiritius4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is one of the drawbacks of the condom. It also gives you one last chance to say no.
2007-03-17 04:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..maybe you have to make up your mind.. it's not yet time to do that thing.. wait until you get married.. but if you insist, you better look for other alternatives instead of using condom.. but i would still say, you save that for your honeymoon..
2007-03-17 04:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by nikka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can fix that.
-8 hours sleep or more at night
-Drink more water or milk
-Eat more rice, grits, pastas, chocolate puddings or candies
-Moderate exercise
-Viagra!
2007-03-17 04:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just nervous and embarassed. Give it time. Try more foreplay next time, and see if it helps.
2007-03-17 04:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by Canadian Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens... your probably to slow putting it on. how about going on the pill so you wont worry about it. or just "pull out" when his about to you know what ;)
2007-03-17 04:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we should hook up. email me, i wont go soft
2007-03-17 04:21:43 · answer #8 · answered by beach_babe971 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋