The first letter is what I wrote at first. but I'm not sure about it. I want her back but I don't want to make her think I'm weak or obsessive or anything because it's long. I also want to be honest. The second letter came from someone who shortened it for me, and I like it and I think it would work but the problem is that I didn't write it. Which should I use? Here's the first one:
2007-03-16 21:13:14 · 2 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey. How are you? You know, ever since we stopped talking, (we haven't talked for 10 months) I had been going over everything in my head, trying to figure out what I was doing wrong. I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. It was because of you that I started working on those things. I know you probably still don't want to talk to me. It's just that a special girl like you is hard to find, you're unlike any friend I've ever had. No other girl is as amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, and beautiful as you. No one else has your light brown eyes that sparkle when you're happy and fade away when you're sad, or your bright smile. There was a time when I was feeling down that you could tell something was wrong because you know me. I'm the same way about you. I know you think I don't know you, and I know I don't know everything about you, but I want to know everything about you. I really care about you and like I said, you're
2007-03-16 21:14:04 · update #1
special to me. I'm tired of playing silly games around you, trying to act like you're not when you really are. Without you, I just had to admit that I must be really stupid for not understanding then what you were trying to tell me, that it wasn't anything wrong with me that you didn't like, it was you just didn't share those feelings for me that I had for you.
I've found out for myself it was better when you didn't like me in that way. Now that you don't like me at all, it's alot worse. For the things I've done, I'm really sorry. I was just afraid of losing you, so I did. I only want us to start over, pretend this whole thing never happened and if necessary forget that there was any mention of romantic interest between us. I know with you I don't have a chance. I just want your friendship back, if it's ok with you. (END) (continues If sent in a letter) If writing this to you makes how you feel about me worse, then if you'd like to, just forget that I wrote it.
2007-03-16 21:14:36 · update #2
If what you want is to never see me or speak to me again, I will just try to let you go just because I only want to make you happy. (END of 1st letter)
Here's the second one, the one I didn't write, but it's shorter
Hey. How are you? You know, ever since we stopped talking, I realized how much I missed you. I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I've really grown and worked on things to improve my life. I'll understand if you still think you made the best decision by breaking up with me, but I know that a special girl like you is hard to find. I'm grateful that you know me better than anyone else. I know that we had our ups and downs, and I would really like to work on things and get to know you again. I think there is a lot that we can learn about one another. I will respect whatever decision you make. Take care. (END of 2nd letter)
So, what do I do?
2007-03-16 21:16:18 · update #3
Maybe I should combine the two?
2007-03-16 21:33:08 · update #4