We have talked on the phone, and the internet, if I do go meet him, what should I do to protect myself from getting hurt?
2007-03-16 21:01:52 · 14 answers · asked by Karen L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump the bastard. At best he just wants cheap sex with no expense of providing a date. At worst, you may never leave alive. Men should cherish and take care of women, respect them. He is trying to treat you like trash at best. Log off of his life.
If you ever do date someone you met online. ALWAYS meet in a public place with a friend of yours around. Arrive late and peek at him. Anything seems wrong, split.
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2007-03-16 21:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Meet in a public place. Don't go to his house! It may sound mean to say it but you dont really know him and until you feel that you can trust him then going out and staying is a public place is the best way to protect yourself.
2007-03-16 21:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Meet him in PUBLIC! it is NOT safe to meet someone who you don't really know, and the fact that he wants you at his house is a sign right there to be cautious.
even in public, be careful, let someone know exactly where you will be/ when you will be back, etc. if it helps, even get a friend to call while you are with this person. (pretend you're making plans or something, even if it sounds really dumb. that guy doesn't know there is any other meaning behind the phone call.)
you don't want to end up on the news, so be careful.
2007-03-16 21:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by bdazz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's quite simple.
Let him know that for your peace of mind you would like to meet at a public place .
If he can't understand and respect your desires you need to forget about him and meet someone that is more understanding.
NEVER go to someones house when you're meeting them for the first time. That is rule 1 of online dating.
2007-03-16 21:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by Rustb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this joker to meet you in public, and if he insists anymore on the home thing, have him meet at your place. Make sure you have your crew hiding in the closets with weapons when he pulls some bullshit on you.
Just thought of something else, he probably has a hidden camera in his place, that's why he's insisting you go over there.........
Always thinkin', I am...
2007-03-16 21:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply insist on meeting in a public place and then take a friend with you, offer him the same thing if he wants to bring a friend he is More than welcome to, but do not meet in a private place if your not familiar with him and nervous about it. If he wants a relationship with you he will agree to it, if not your better off not meeting him.
2007-03-16 21:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by firetdriver_99 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this is someone you don't know in person nope I wouldn't go. Insist on a public place like a pizza shop or fast food place. Don't go to his apt. or house.
2007-03-16 21:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, I have fallen for this trap plenty of times, they usually want you to come over to their house so they can f**k you. Seriously, if you have been out with him a couple times in public definitely do not go to his house especially at night.
2007-03-16 21:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by tha_best 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go public, and if possible have a friend discretely nearby.
your internet guy should know that going straight to his home is moving a little too fast.
2007-03-16 21:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't put yourself in a position to be alone till you feel safe... besides there are some real creeps on the net... I would stay away from meeting anyone here
2007-03-16 21:06:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋