Everything was okay when we broke up. Neither one of us was mad at each other. Later on I call my ex up to talk and asked him could I see him to talk. I wanted to give his ring back. He had the worst attitude towards me. So I figured I was annoying him and I left him alone. Later on I sent him a message saying im glad that we're friends and you can always talk to me when you want! He responds, "Oh well, its all good, we was ment to be and we never going to be." All i wanted was us to be cool as friends, nothing more. I've already moved on because I am talking to another guy! So i sent his ring back in the mail, because i didnt want it. Recently I asked him, why do u have an attitude? and he tells me im retarded and i need to move on. He has no idea that i already have moved on. I just didnt want tension between us. He even said himself he wanted to be friends, but his actions were different. He says he moved on but if he did, why is it hard to talk to me? Whats hard about saying hello?
2007-03-16 20:11:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didnt even want to be his friend. I just didnt want things to end on a bad note. So maybe if I did want to talk to him one day, everything would be okay between us. I already stopped talking to him like a friend after that last phone call!
2007-03-16 20:18:36 · update #1
Yes! i moved on, i just wanted peace between us
2007-03-16 20:20:24 · update #2
well, i wasnt trying to talk to him! I clearly asked him why would he say everything is okay between us when he has an attitude with me? I havent seen him in months and I dont plan on it. Its been a month since i really spoken with him on the phone! Like I said i just wanted to be sure we were okay! I dont want late night phone calls and long conversations, jeez!
2007-03-16 20:33:14 · update #3
oh,geez! it is hard because you are his ex. being friends with your ex is possible, yes, but it is very rare. it doesn't happen often. why not just let him alone? after all, you were able to move on? you're trying to be friends with your ex might be misunderstood. some people, including your ex, might think you are still trying to win him back and what better way than to pretend you want to be friends? leave him alone. if he wants to be friends with you, he'll make the first move. you, move on.
2007-03-16 20:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously he's a sore loser who couldn't get over the fact that u broke up. He is telling himself ot move on instead of you cos' he's the one who couldn't. He trying to act cool being sauve by the craps about being friends, dun believe him. He's taking it far too personal.
I still keep in touch wif my ex even though we r both married now. BUt thru'' sms n phone calls. we don't meet up anymore due to our own commitments. BUt then, i gathered that you are just trying to create a smooth atmosphere/zone for the break up so that eventually, there are no hard feelings around. You r cool but not your ex..
2007-03-16 21:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by Nui Nui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heeeelllllloooooo, you say you have moved on, got a new friend, but your still trying to call him and be his friend. First I bet your new dude wouldn't like that and I bet you haven't told him that your still reaching out to your ex. Why do you want to be his friend. You should your new guy RESPECT and not do that. Don't you know that men and women can't be friends. I think you still like him. I got the crazy ideal for you . Leave him alone. If you are so moved on.
2007-03-16 20:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it seems you have moved on and he has'nt. let it be, he'll come around. whats important now is that you have moved on. (esp. if he was the one who broke up w/ u- silly him!) nothing wrong w/ being friends w/ ex. i had an ex 5 years ago & we still send sms today ..to say hello (he adds some lov u's & miss u) & to keep in touch (tho his wife wouldnt be happy if she knows). Gotten over him. just keeping the line open afterall he had a place in me before & i don't have any plans to take him back. (too happy to hear now that he misses me) so.. role on the dice! live your life now & if he wouldnt want to be friends,leave it. just let him know that u'd welcome the friendship when he is ready.
2007-03-16 20:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by jables 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you loved your ex then theirs no way you can consider your ex to be your friend. and their no way he can consider you ever to be his friend if he has feelings more then a friend for you.your ex could be your friend if he does not have feellings for you and you do not have feelings for him then you could be friend.If you love ex more then a friend then you could not be his friend because you love him more then a friend he loves you more a friend.It would be really hard to be friends with exboyfriend or exgirlfriend if you still have feellings for one another you know what I mean.
2007-03-16 20:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Carebear22 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you're better off not being his friend. I would just leave it at that. Maybe he's getting a different vibe than you think you're sending.
2007-03-16 20:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by arzachel81 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guy's a loser, clearly. I would avoid him. You've already tried being the better person, if he's not being polite in return, don't bother.
2007-03-16 20:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by stolenXsolace 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he really does not want to be your friend he just wants to be able to say hi and bye when he runs into you. please stop calling him, it is over. too bad he could not have been alittle more of an adult about it.
2007-03-16 20:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I get along with mine. Mostly, we communicate by e-mail.
2007-03-16 20:15:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋