ok so there's this guy that i like who knows i like him. when a mutual friend asked him whether he liked me, he said that he was really busy and had no time for a relationship cos he's got really important exams coming up. from that, i figured out that he does like me but just doesn't wanna screw up his exams and/or future. and also, all the signs of him liking me are there.
i got his handphone number, and i texted him, saying that i got his number from a friend and was hoping that he didn't mind that i did. he said that it was alright and we started talking. the next 3 times i texted him, he replied me with a 'hey' and 'how you doing'. after i replied him, he didn't reply me, even after a few hours. and it's not as if he doesn't want to talk to me, right? because if he didn't then he wouldn't have replied my text at all!
i have no idea what to think and i don't know what to do, i'm so confused!
what should i do? sensible and helpful advice please!! thanks!
2007-03-16 20:02:59 · 8 answers · asked by the sweet escape <3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay try to think from his side too, might be he is having a very importand exams ahead... if you think he like you too but may be he is getting apart so that he can devote his time to his studies...
give him time.. wait for him to come froward. if he really likes you he come to you very soon
i am too in the same position the guy whom i like he said he love me but due to some of his family probs he creat a distance and now when i stopped going behind him, he is trying to come closer to me even in much better loving way
try it may be it work for u too alsp
2007-03-16 20:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's just sticking to what hes saying.. and i think he DOES like u but like her said he doesnt have time for a serious relationship so he's not trying to lead u on..
they way he said it .. that hes really busy and had no time for a relationship coz he has exams has its ups because he didnt say no.. he just said he was busy AND gave u a reason.. sorta like.. thank you come again. hahahaha, as in, come back when im done with what i have to do.
he said it was alright u had his number and he replied too and the fact that u keep texting him with him not texting back sorta shows that hes just doing what he said to you. he knows u asked him already and he doesnt want u to think that he's TOO into you yet even if he is a bit because he doesnt want to get distracted so i think he's just keeping it simple..
its good because he's not leading you on trying to make u think he DOES really like u even after what he says and then not texting you but he's being normal about it.. and i see he isnt trying to hurt u either..
its not that he doesnt want to talk.. he's just setting his priorities straight so he can figure out what he wants first before jumping into anything.
ofcourse i dont think u should give up, but i reckon u should just respect what he told u and let him be.. he sounds like a sincere guy and he wasnt horrible to you so give him space until he's ready too. try not to think about him too much and find something to do till he's done with his school work.. or even better, imagine how much better it'd be when he's more free for you when he's done.. he wont have to stress and neither would u =)
he didnt say no so u dont need to worry so just keep up a friendship until .. the time.. comes... :D:D:D
2007-03-17 03:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you're telling me it seems that he's not interested in you at all. If he really liked you he would be with you no matter what. Even if he did have exams or not. You can talk to him, but if he doesn't reply the first or second time don't do it again or else you'll scare him off.
2007-03-17 03:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by Cardiophobia <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are confusing but im pretty sure he didn't take a while replying because he didn't want to talk to you he probably just got a little bit on the bussy side because that has happened to me a few times. If he is too bussy to date now because of exams you should wait untill afterwards & then talk about it then.
~I wish the best for you two~
2007-03-17 03:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by Faith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be really busy with his studies, you should wait until exams are over and then ask him out
2007-03-17 03:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by lata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think his priority right now is his studies. he being nice that he said he didnt mind you getting his # and replying back. he needs time.
2007-03-17 03:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by Muffin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on... because once you start dating somene else or just going out on dates he'll want what he can't have.
2007-03-17 03:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by Nini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it be, if he likes you he will let you know cause he knows now that you like him. if you push him or smother him he may decide to look at other, less pushy girls.
2007-03-17 03:07:33 · answer #8 · answered by heather l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋