well, i went on a a second date with this guy i like. And well we were in the movies...he kept staring at me during the movie. then later on in the movie, he put his hand on my chin & gently directed my face to his face. He was going to kiss me, but i wasn't ready for it since i never kissed before, plus it was too early to kiss, so i turned my head & he kissed my cheek. Do you think he was dis-encouraged to do it again?? it wasnt wrong to do that, right?
2007-03-16 19:18:38 · 24 answers · asked by Kay Meee! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I for one am very proud of you. A lot people would have just done the easy thing and kissed the boy. Tell him why you did it, or at least tell him something like, "We should try that kissing thing again when we aren't in a crowded theater."
It's ok to let him know what your idea of the right time is, and talk about those kind of things with him. If he how you expect him to behave he is more likely he is to do it. The good guys want to be hero, a knight in shinning armor it makes them feel good to treat you right.
You are growing up in a exciting time where the standards of conduct are very blurred. It's good and bad, but you sound like you are in touch with what you want. Take advantage of the freedom you have a carefully sculpt yourself and your life so you can do everything you want in your own time and in your own way.
You're special so it doesn't matter what someone else would do, be true to your heart and be very cautions of anyone who doesn't respect your hearts desires.
2007-03-16 19:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mitzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NoOoOo sweet heart is wasn't!
Not at all, you felt it wasn't the right time. It's completely OK.
You really should tell him what you said, you weren't ready for it since you've never kissed before. Be open with him. Let him know why you didn't want to kiss him at that moment, tell him you want it to be special. :) He'll understand for sure!
Hun, you really odd to tell him, other wise he may get the wrong impression & think you don't want to kiss him. Or he might feel like a complete fool & would be nervous to be rejected again...
So I highly recommend you tell him your real feelings ok girl?
Again, YOU WERE'NT WRONG!
Good luck dear =]
2007-03-17 02:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't wrong to do that. You shouldn't kiss him until you are ready. Will it discourage him? Probably. So what you need to do is tell him that you didn't mean to discourage him the other day at the movies but you just didn't feel like you were ready yet. You can optionally tell him that you have never kissed before. Tell him, please don't let that discourage you.
2007-03-17 02:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! It wasn't wrong!!!
Don't feel bad. If you didn't want to kiss, you didn't have to. Do not feel bad. You have every right to do what you feel comfortable with WHEN you feel comfortable doing it. :]
And when you're ready just encourage him. But no it wasn't wrong at all, you did the right thing. It WOULD have been wrong to have kissed him only because you thought you should have. So, you did the right thing.
2007-03-17 02:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by :] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was not wrong at all if u felt uncomfortable and plus the first kiss is special..he probably was dis-encouraged but just tell him how u felt and if he really liked and respected u he would understand
Good Luck
2007-03-17 02:20:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no haha, thats really cute actaully! liek you got a little freaked out but it should only make him want to kiss you more later one.. liek something to look forward to. you had every right to not want to kiss him yet. keep your morals set hig girly. you have everything going for you, & he will see soon enough.. plus if he really likes you a lot, he can wait till you feel in the mood to kiss him back. best of luck.
ps. practice on your pillow or something, it will help you in the process <3
2007-03-17 02:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by Lor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wasnt wrong at all!! IT's just that you are not ready.
But it's better for you to get ready soon, because some guys prefer to be fast! But if he's serious with you, he'll know that you are not ready and he'll wait for u to be ready! =)
2007-03-17 02:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by priincessgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you be, especially if it was that ovious. Better tell him you wanted to just were not ready yet, or chances are he won't even bother trying again. It was'nt wrong, after all it's your body and face. It's just sometimes, that moment is hard to predict.
2007-03-17 02:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably really shy about making a 2nd move like that. i would be after rejection. people fear rejection badly. let him know you didnt do it because you dont like him and tell him when you're ready you'll make the move yourself....you already know he wants the kiss anyway.
2007-03-17 02:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by xyz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its kind of hard for a dude to go through such rejection but then if his mature he'll understand that you too have a freedom of choice and until he stops "creeping" you out he'll have to settle for the cheek. dont worry if he truly likes you he'll come around again.
2007-03-17 02:29:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋