what should i do and handle my first kiss? i know everyone says just go with the flow... but im nervous... what do i say? how do i act? what do guys like?
2007-03-16 19:05:05 · 14 answers · asked by kaylabobayla♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*How to tell if
he wants to kiss you!
After you've kissed him once, you know he wants
to kiss you. But what if you two have never
kissed? The first kiss is the hardest.
You could ask him to kiss you, but that takes
a lot of courage. But you can tell, without reading
his mind. Here are some ways. He could have
worked on the science project with someone else, but
he asked you. He could have called somebody else to
chat about the English assignment, but he called you.
He could have sat anywhere in the cafeteria, but
he sat next to you. It all means he likes to hang out
with you.
And what about when you're with him. Does he
sit close to you? Does he smile and look happy when
you're together? These are all signs that he likes
you and might want to kiss you.
**How to get him to kiss you
Sometimes people who are nervous send out
mixed signals. You might want him to kiss you, but
your nervous behavior might be saying "stay away."
First of all your posture should be open. Sit or
stand close to him. Face him. Look at him, not at the
ground. Don't cross your arms or lean away; or,
instead of "kiss me" you'll be saying "kiss off!"
Look into his eyes. Smile. Get close to him. If you're
not holding hands yet, do it. Ask him to help you
remove an earring, or undo the clasp of that gold chain
you're wearing. To do that he's got to put both hands
on your neck.
Now turn your head, and look in his eyes, and be quiet.
Smile. If he says anything, just interrupt and whisper
his name softly. He'll kiss you for sure!
***How to kiss
When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and
press gently against his lips. Tilt your head
slightly to one side, so your noses won't get
in the way.
What do you do next? It depends. If it's just a
little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but
(this is very important) don't move away all of
a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss!
Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands,
and looking in his eyes.
On the other hand, if you're French kissing, read on ...
****French kissing
(or Frenching)
French kisses are kisses in which you also use your
tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.)
So, after you've started kissing, the next step
is that either he will slip his tongue into your
mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your
tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully
push his tongue out with yours, then let him
push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on.
Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!)
or until your annoying little brother starts taping you
with the camcorder and threatening to tell your parents.
See www.how-to-beat-up-your-little-brother.com for details! LOL
~Kissing with glasses or braces
If either of you wears glasses, just take them off
before kissing.
If either has braces, the important thing not
to press too hard agains this lips. Otherwise the
braces will dig themselves into the inside of
his mouth. Ouch!
If you both have braces, don't worry! During
normal kissing your braces won't touch, so they
can't get tangled up with each other!
****!Kissing do's and dont's
A sure way to ruin a perfect kiss is with bad
breath. Carry around some mints or gum, and
have one a few moments before you kiss. Offer
him one too. Avoid spicy foods, garlic and
onions just before. Or at least make sure
you're both eating spicy food, so neither will
notice.
Non-smokers hate kissing a smoker! It's
as gross as kissing an ashtray!
You might be nervous, but don't giggle during or
after you kiss. The other person won't understand
it's nervous laughter. He'll think that you were
laughing at him!
Practice makes perfect!
The only way to get good at kissing is to
practice. Have fun!
If u ever need anything else email me@: godsbaby42@yahoo.com
*Much Love* **God Bless**
2007-03-17 04:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by Tell Mariee 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK! i was SO SO SO nervous for my first kiss too! let me tell u righttttttt now...the first kiss is always THE SILLY KISS..its gonna be akward at first..but u have to give ur self a little credit!! itll probabaly take a while before u get comfortable with being so close to their face..but once the first couple of kisses are over..its FUN! lol. just take a deep breath, smile..and GO FOR IT! =] (dont get too crazy tho! lol)
2007-03-16 19:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by mickey 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to say anything. Close your eyes and act like you've done it before. Don't go getting all crazy with your tongue or anything. Start out closed mouth and see where it goes from there. Don't get too slobbery either.
2007-03-16 19:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jim 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Act natural.
Try not to slobber.
Don't go in with your mouth open ready to bite his face off. Make sure your breath is fresh and clean.
And enjoy!
2007-03-16 19:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by dumdum4eva 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well is the person your going to kiss a boyfriend? if not dont do just to do it. dont be pressured into kissing anyone. make sure its a guy you really like or a bf. i was pressured into kissing this guy and it was my first kiss. i regret. i didnt even like the guy.
2007-03-16 19:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by brenda_lilb 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go with the flow is the best way to look at this. If you are nervous and think about it too much, it won't be very good. If you are really worried, practice with a friend.
2007-03-16 19:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The best thing to do is totally clear your mind. Don't think about how you're standing, don't think about how you're acting, don't think about what guys like. (besides, you're kissing, guys like that)
2007-03-16 19:09:44 · answer #7 · answered by Jack S 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah & maybe( i know this might sounds weirddd!?!) but ask one of your close girl friends if they have kissed before & can show you how.. it might seem gross, but liek seriosuly, you have no 'sexual' feelings towards your girl friend so just have them teach you how to kiss.. it is silly, but it will help <3
2007-03-16 19:14:17 · answer #8 · answered by Lor 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Kisses are over rated unless it is your granny I love my nana
2007-03-16 19:09:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Did you know you can get pregnant from kissing?
2007-03-16 19:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by backwoodscountrywoman 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋