have sex with me ... we have been going out for a month and still no sausage in my bun ...
serious answers only please!!!!
2007-03-16 19:02:52 · 20 answers · asked by bone_daddys_waitress 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he respects you enough to want to get to know you before he jumps in the sack with you. Or maybe he has picked up on the fact that you are so willing that maybe you are not selective and he is questioning whether he wants to have sex with you.
2007-03-16 19:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by misse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just have to let him know your intentions...he may be thinking the same thing. Unless he has some kind of hang up, if you tell him you want to have sex, he will probably go through with it. Then you may just get that "sausage in a bun" you are talking about!
2007-03-16 19:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well girl you know what I do when I want some from my guy?
Hm, here are a few techniques I use...
1) Kiss him, rub his body [inner thighs, belly, chest,]
2) Talk dirty to him, kind of like hinting it out. Such as
"I've been having all kinds of fantasize about you today! I could hardly focus on what I was doing." or
"Is it hot in here or is it just me?" ha ha, or even sometimes I just come out with it & say
"I'm horny" that one really let's em know.
3) Start tickling him, then get on top of him, when he begs you to stop, stop then begin kissing him (while your still on top of him) then slowly go down to his neck, then when you know things are getting hot, kind of um, how can I put this well "Rub him, with your lower region" *Wink wink* then he should take the hint & things will go on great from there.
Those are some things I do, just basically seduce him until he can't resist you.
If he feels uncomfortable in any situation stop what your doing & just ask him "Why don't you try to have sex with me?" Flat out! Honesty is always the easy route to take.
So go for it! then if he doesn't like it ask alright?
Good luck girly!
2007-03-16 19:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A month? How fast todays young people are rushing their lives...Sex is not the main key to any relationship..Honest,faith and trust is..You have to have communication...I loved the fact when people really got to knowing each other before even thinking of sex..Everyone thinks sex is the answer to everything when sometimes sex destroys a relationship..Maybe this young man has a reason why he is not approaching you for sex..Maybe he wants to know more about you first..Maybe his religion stops him...Sit and talk to him but really if you think about it ,,30 days is not that long of time to really deeply learn about someone..I really wish young people would slow down their lives and learn to enjoy this life before settling down,,and later finding out they made wrong choices..God bless you hun..Just talk to him,,Im sure he will tell you why..
2007-03-16 19:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, I can just imagine how warm and fuzzy he must feel inside, knowing that to you he is nothing but a life-support system for a sausage.
2007-03-16 19:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyy, haf u asked him yet? maybe he wants to, but he might be wondering if you like it or not....just do sometihng attractive..like....start kissing him on ur bed or couch..and the lye down and pull him down on top of you...he should get the sign...
but...remember...dont force him if he doesnt want to!
good luckk
2007-03-16 19:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is the key in a relationship...talk to him...maybe he hasnt had sex before...maybe he doesnt think you want to have sex yet..he cant read your mind you have to talk to him and tell him what you are thinking..he doesnt have a crystal ball saying what your brain is thinking
2007-03-16 19:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey if he has not tried anything in a month he is not worth having, I like fight a guy off knowing he wants me, if this guy has not done anything, he is gay. Get rid of him.
2007-03-16 19:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by Warm_Hearted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that seems soon, but arouse him, like some hints, don't be a sl*t, but probably like tempt him, like do something extremely in slow motion. unless he likes aggressive girls, go ahead and jump on him...
2007-03-16 19:07:43 · answer #9 · answered by Gainy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start stripping in front of him, then put your hand down hos pants, try to take off his clothes, and if all else lick your boobs
2007-03-16 19:07:54 · answer #10 · answered by darth_dylan_9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋