I work with this girl.
She shows me all the signs of being interested in me.
(clumsy around me and stealing glances at me. the whole eye contact game, shell look at you then look away really fast because she thinks I noticed, and MOST OF ALL PLAYING HARD TO GET sometimes)
I TRIED ASKING HER OUT COUPLE OF TIMES. BUT DIDN'T WORK (BAD TIMMING)
I ASKED HER OUT COUPLE OF TIMES. AND I CAN'T DO IT AGAIN.
I'm not really open with her/ not really close friends. But we talk for couple of min at work.
I have her number, but I’m too scared. I already called her few times.
What can I do? Should I still call her?
2007-03-16 19:02:07 · 23 answers · asked by S. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your best bet is probably to open the idea from a "date" to "hanging out" if you ask her to hang out with a few friends or something a little more casual it might not seam so foceful to her. if she feels like your trying to jump her.. shes gonna run away.. if you try to get to know her better and be a little closer shell be more likely to go out on a date with you... just try working it in rather than jumping to the chase... if all works out well youll have a new girlfriend! worst case scenario you end up being friends which is better than net being in her life at all or shes not the person you hope she is and in that case at least you didnt waste your time right!?!
keep in mind.. all great things take time!
good luck
Peace out bunnie!
2007-03-16 19:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by little missy--->♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get talking to her more so you can get to know her better, or just call her and whats the worst that could happen? She might actually go out with you. A concert is a good place for a first date if you just want to be with them and small talk.
2007-03-16 19:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by Morgan J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until u see her at work and ask her to some casual place with other friends and say its not a date. Get to know her better so she feels comfurtable with u. Than after u get to be friends or whenever call her again. If she gave u her # she wants u to use it.
2007-03-16 19:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her at work..when you talk to her at work ask her about hanging out one night that you are both off or you are both working and you can do something after yall both get off work...ask her about calling her...you can say something like hey you wanna hang out sometime i will give you a call...she must be somewhat interested in you if she gave you her number..if she didnt want you to call she wouldnt have given you the number...
2007-03-16 19:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in your shoes best thing to do is this. Talk with her friends and get them to help you out a little. This will take a while and will only work if this girl actually likes you. Get one of her friends to act like they're going out with you and get her to "break your heart". She'll see you vulnerable and if you get everything to go good from there you will be able to go out with her.
2007-03-16 19:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by distortedviewlistener_z 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
man u should talk to her more any ring her also pretend to be interested in her life ask about her family bros, sises etc. if you go out keep eye contact and dont get caught looking at her boobs.
2007-03-16 19:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes probably nervous too don't ask her out straight off first ask her to go to a party or something kinda public like that just get to know her before you try to date her and DO NOT let your hormones make you look like a dumb ***
2007-03-16 19:11:44 · answer #7 · answered by acogunslinger 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make a relation ship first friends at lest. dont scare her off by repeatedly asking her ask out. call her, flirt, all that fun stuff she'll say yes eventually, maybe, hopefully.
2007-03-16 19:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by hi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya call her and just get to know her 1st and then let it evolve into something more. If you don't have the energy to put into getting to know her on a deeper level then it time to move on.
2007-03-16 19:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by mo1979ca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
continue being friendly and nice...nothing wrong with that. timing is everything...maybe she's going thru 'imagining' being with you...making up her mind. it's difficult to date someone you work with...there's so many things wrong with that! so, keep trying if it's not inappropriate to date ur coworker, she's available (not involved) and it's not against company policy or such. peace
2007-03-16 19:10:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋