first kiss???

Question

what should i do and handle my first kiss? i know everyone says just go with the flow... but im nervous... what do i say? how do i act? what do guys like?

Answer 1

It depends.... I'd listen to my innerside.
Why? What happened?

Answer 2

I'm sorry but everyone else is right. GO WITH THE FLOW! Okay look I'm 14 (well, almost) and the first time i kissed my boyfriend i was like "OMG, what if I can't kiss, what if I have bad breath, what if I slobber on him, what if I do it like wrong?" So many thoughts were running through my mind but once we got into it, it was like the best feeling in the world to have the guy I cared about most in the world, at that time, actually holding me and kissing me like that. But honestly it really isn't that hard because if I can do it, and I am TOTALLY not corrdinated, then anyone can do it. Just make sure you're relaxed and don't try to think to much about it because that will ruin the moment and trying to use a technique would just screw everything. So here's my basic tip: Just kinda go along and don't force your tounge down his throat, let his come to you because TRUST it will, and ooo have fun and ENJOY. O yea and PLZ don't "say" anything because your mouth will kinda be otherwise occupied. Remember this is just as special for him as for you.

Answer 3

Dear Child, This is what I told my Daughter: Don't give your 1st Kiss away, you have only ONE !! It is a treasure that must be earned,a reward you will bestow on the lucky young man who treats you with respect,and makes you feel special.He will be kind.He will not be in a hurry,he will be just as nervous and unsure as you. He will bring you silly little gifts,because he doesn't know any better.His heart will be in his throat,he'll have trouble talking to you.When he is with you,he will be so happy, he wont want to do anything to make you go away.When you find this one,you will know inside.When you recognize this young man,be patiant,let him know you think he is special too.Then , when you are both appreciative of each other,you will happy,and sure you aren't wasting that gift on the undeserving. Remember,your first kiss should be the one kiss you compare all the others to! And if you have chosen well, it will be the ONE,and you'll be glad he was The One to recieve that First Kiss that meant something! If your special,and he is special,then,you'll remember that Kiss all of your life! It was Innocence expressed in purity !

Answer 4

don't worry about it.. if you're nervous it might reflect in the kiss and the guy will be wondering what's going on. it's your first one, so it probably won't be extremely intense or anything. going with the flow really is the best thing. just kiss him and mean it and i hope its really great. =] good luck

Answer 5

first kiss awkwardness is just inevitable. my first kiss was with my ex bf of 2 years - we didnt even tilt our heads, we just planted one little peck and our noses bumped and our eyes were open haha it was bad. but all first kisses are weird because its a first, ya know? you dont know how to react, what to say or what to do, because you dont know how it'll turn out. just go for it. i was nervous too, but i went with it and now me and my ex are still best friends hehe. hopefully things will be better for you. maybe the guy you first kiss wont be an ex hahaha good luck.

Answer 6

I'm 43 yrs old and i have had 6 first kisses there all special and they all scared the hell out of me. be your self

Answer 7

some guys like girls who have never had thier first kiss
its like saying your serious

some guys like kiss whores

some guys like it to be all toungey


depends

Answer 8

*How to tell if
he wants to kiss you!


After you've kissed him once, you know he wants
to kiss you. But what if you two have never
kissed? The first kiss is the hardest.

You could ask him to kiss you, but that takes
a lot of courage. But you can tell, without reading
his mind. Here are some ways. He could have
worked on the science project with someone else, but
he asked you. He could have called somebody else to
chat about the English assignment, but he called you.
He could have sat anywhere in the cafeteria, but
he sat next to you. It all means he likes to hang out
with you.

And what about when you're with him. Does he
sit close to you? Does he smile and look happy when
you're together? These are all signs that he likes
you and might want to kiss you.

**How to get him to kiss you


Sometimes people who are nervous send out
mixed signals. You might want him to kiss you, but
your nervous behavior might be saying "stay away."

First of all your posture should be open. Sit or
stand close to him. Face him. Look at him, not at the
ground. Don't cross your arms or lean away; or,
instead of "kiss me" you'll be saying "kiss off!"

Look into his eyes. Smile. Get close to him. If you're
not holding hands yet, do it. Ask him to help you
remove an earring, or undo the clasp of that gold chain
you're wearing. To do that he's got to put both hands
on your neck.


Now turn your head, and look in his eyes, and be quiet.
Smile. If he says anything, just interrupt and whisper
his name softly. He'll kiss you for sure!

***How to kiss


When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and
press gently against his lips. Tilt your head
slightly to one side, so your noses won't get
in the way.

What do you do next? It depends. If it's just a
little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but
(this is very important) don't move away all of
a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss!
Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands,
and looking in his eyes.

On the other hand, if you're French kissing, read on ...

****French kissing
(or Frenching)


French kisses are kisses in which you also use your
tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.)
So, after you've started kissing, the next step
is that either he will slip his tongue into your
mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your
tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully
push his tongue out with yours, then let him
push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on.

Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!)
or until your annoying little brother starts taping you
with the camcorder and threatening to tell your parents.
See www.how-to-beat-up-your-little-brother.com for details!

~Kissing with glasses or braces


If either of you wears glasses, just take them off
before kissing.

If either has braces, the important thing not
to press too hard agains this lips. Otherwise the
braces will dig themselves into the inside of
his mouth. Ouch!

If you both have braces, don't worry! During
normal kissing your braces won't touch, so they
can't get tangled up with each other!

*****Kissing do's and dont's


A sure way to ruin a perfect kiss is with bad
breath. Carry around some mints or gum, and
have one a few moments before you kiss. Offer
him one too. Avoid spicy foods, garlic and
onions just before. Or at least make sure
you're both eating spicy food, so neither will
notice.
Non-smokers hate kissing a smoker! It's
as gross as kissing an ashtray!
You might be nervous, but don't giggle during or
after you kiss. The other person won't understand
it's nervous laughter. He'll think that you were
laughing at him!

Practice makes perfect!

The only way to get good at kissing is to
practice. Have fun!

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*Much Love* **God Bless**

Answer 9

be ur self. and try to think about how nervous the guy will be also =]

Answer 10

Dont say anything , just do what feels right