Okay, I'm bisexual, and I lean towards guys. There is a girl who thinks that I'm straight and I am also going to prom with her. I see her everyday.
To tell you the truth, I do not want to be in a relationship with her, and I believe that she thinks that I want to be.
What should I do in this kind of situation?
She's very sensitive.
2007-03-16 18:54:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*I'm a guy.
2007-03-16 18:55:37 · update #1
Just tell her that ya'll are going only as friends and she cant have any afterward's.
2007-03-16 18:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by materialgirl96 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to fool her & yourself? Are you trying to protect your bisexuality or homosexuality?
Ok, let's put your sexuality aside and keep things simple. Do you even like her? No. Then why go prom with her, break her heart & risk ruining your reputation? I think it's better to be with someone who accepts the way you are, whether homo or bi. If you're bi-sexual & your future gf doesn't mind, then there's not much of a problem. She may like 3-some, you never know. But highly not advisable though.
Since you already know she's sensitive, tell her it's better for her to find someone else as her partner. Tell your prom date frankly that you're not her type. Tell her your sexuality if you don't mind. But if you still want to go prom with her, tell her you're doing in on a friendship level and tell her not to expect too much out of it.
But I do hope you will be straight and lean more towards girls instead. One less homosexual couple (guy+guy) means two more men in the world for ladies to love.
2007-03-16 19:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, bisexuality is just a failure to commit. If you lean towards guys, you're gay, not bi.
If you're already taking her to prom, have a fun time, but don't be too affectionate. Girls have a bad tendency to ponder every detail of what you do to see if it 'means' something. So be polite, but be careful not to give off signals that she might read as meaning you're into her.
2007-03-16 18:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a therapist and find out why you are so twisted and confused about your sexual orientation.
Seriously.
2007-03-16 21:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your gay not bi....i know it
tell he the truth,,if not ur gonns just stress your self.
2007-03-16 19:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by aj107 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont belive in bisexuality.
you need to be honest with her.
2007-03-16 19:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋