Why do girls or women get an abortion when they can just put them up for adoption?

Question

I just think it's not right and it is realy sad because when girls/women get an abortion then your'e not allowing the baby to expiriance life and that is also killing a humanbing.

Answer 1

Sometimes it just seems like the best idea at the time. Most women don't think that they will be able to give up the child when the time comes, and others don't think that they're ready to be pregnant, let alone give birth and give up the baby.

I personally would never get an abortion, but I don't believe it's "murder" when people do. It's their choice. And every woman should have the choice to do what she pleases with her body. And until the baby is actually at a stage when it's considered viable (capable to surviving outside the womb on it's own) then the fetus is still considered part of the woman's body.

Answer 2

You really seriously should not bring up abortion and actually expect the right answer because some ladies believe that they aren't ready to have the child and they can compare* it to miscarriages, where as others feel that it should be against the law, you are obviously one of the second ones. I seriously don't care but would never have an abortion, but I would also never put my child up for adoption because of the risks to that. take your pick because during the pregnancy, women become attached to the baby and decide that they can not adopt the baby out, and if they know that would be the outcome...abortion is their only way out. you have to look at it from both angles because if you don't, you are living your life hating women that have abortions, if you look at both sides you may not agree with what they do but you don't end up hating other women.

Also, have you ever thought of how baby's come out? A baby with loving non adopted parents have a much happier life (proven fact) than children that have womb mothers that have no feelings for the child. the first nine months are just as important as the raising of the children. If the mother does not become attached to the baby, the baby has a lower happiness rate or something like that, anyway, I wouldn't want a baby that doesn't know love because they haven't had any love for the first nine months. then there are lso the mother thinking that it may be ok to go have a night at the bar, no you have an alcohol syndrom baby... there are so many factors about carrying a baby that is going to be adopted at birth. Do some research and think it over

Answer 3

No. that's not just about coping with the toddler after the being pregnant/adoption subjects, that's concerning to the being pregnant. the choice to have an abortion is at situations extra of an argument of the being pregnant than of elevating a baby. An adoption, no count number if open or no longer, thoroughly private or no longer, handles elevating a baby, yet no longer the being pregnant itself. those ladies/women can turn to adoption to preserve the undertaking of elevating a baby, whether it does no longer something to preserve the undertaking of having to undergo 9 months of being pregnant. If it somewhat is a few thing a girl/lady would not choose, that's some thing she should not be forced to do, in spite of the circumstances of the being pregnant.

Answer 4

Somebody gave an equation which will always be with me
9MOP + 9MOP = ABC. nearly 30 years Ago.

9 minutes of privacy and 9 months of pregnancy gives A Beautiful Child.

The problem these ladies have is they want to have the fun and not disclose it. They could very well use Condoms, but they do not want to.

So they do not enjoy the 2nd 9MOP and the last ABC is lost.

Only when the first 2 match u will get the third.

Answer 5

No birth control is 100 percent so when a woman has done everything to prevent pregnancy and it still happens, an abortion is her only other option if she does not want to have the baby.

Consider hypothetically a 15 year old girl who has decided she is ready to have sex with her boyfriend of one year. They take all the percautions that they have been told to take: condoms, spermicide, etc. and yet this fails and they STILL get pregnant.
She doesn't realize until it's too late to take emergency contraceptives. What does she do?
She is in high school, what would her peers think when her pregnancy becomes obvious?
She doesn't want to face this, yet she is a smart girl and does not want to miss a year of school to have the baby in private, what does she do?
She is faced with one of the toughest decisions a pregnant teen has.

This is just one example of why a person could have an abortion. The safest route for anyone who doesn't want a child is abstinence.

Answer 6

Well, sometimes there are things that you aren't factoring in. What if it's an abuse case-who are you to say that some poor teenager who has been raped by her father, or someone else, HAS to carry that child. Could you even grasp that concept? What if there is an illness in the mother that would cause her and the child's death?

And no, dear, a 'humanbing' can survive outside of the uterus, human beings, on general, sustain life on their own.

By that right-males should never, ever masturbate. Because that is like murder- sperm serve no purpose other than to procreate, masturbating into a tissue is killing thousands of potential children. An embroyo/zygote is a potential child-simply because one-third of pregnancies end in miscarriage. So, every man who has ever masturbated should be in the same group with any woman who has had an abortion, right?

Answer 7

"A woman chooses to abort, like a tiger in a trap chooses to chew off its own foot" -some quote I've read everywhere.

Yes, often times when a woman aborts, she was not being particularly responsible in the first place but there are many reasons she may choose it.

You can use every birth control method in the world and there is still a margin of error.

The process of growning a child in one's womb can involve quite a commitment on her part. Perhaps she is barely able to keep her own body healthy. Trying to nourish another being may be dangerous for both.

Once the baby is born there is another issue to consider: An emotional bond has already been created. She will be terribly torn by the fact that she has such a sweet tiny trusting thing, but she can do nothing for it.

Answer 8

It's not that easy after carrying a baby for nine months.

We actually fed the baby in the hospital that we were supposed to adopt, and the mom changed her mind, even tho she really couldn't afford to have a child.

Many times the grandparents of the baby will talk mom into it.

It's not fair for the mother at all. Sure, there are many couples wanting to adopt, we adopted two ourselves. But I'm on no bandwagon to make a girl carry a baby for 9 months only to give it up.

You can't even know what kind of decision that is unless you've been part of it, on either end.

Answer 9

There are many. Depend's on how she got pg. If she was rape why carry that child. And girls have no business getting pg only women. You cant say what you would do unless you walk in that person shoes and feel their pain. Plus there are more than enough of KIDS in foster care and adoption place's anyway. Why add more. Maybe she's a crack-head, Why put that child thur that. Cause now the baby will be too.

Answer 10

I think there is not enough education. Abortion and adoption are not the only alternative. Private foster care is available and there are many families willing to help. They understand that the baby in the home may not be there for good. I wish that was brought up more.