My girlfriend thinks i dont love her and she thinks I dont want to be with her when i realy want to be with her and I do love her please help.
2007-03-16 17:56:27 · 30 answers · asked by shane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her, reassure her, love her.
2007-03-16 17:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by Breezy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you need to show that you're a gentleman. Buy her some roses or a small gift. Open doors for her, especially the car door. Call her up sometime randomly and tell her you were just checking to see how hew day was going, keep it short. Take her out on a nice little date, eat a dinner, and then take a walk through a park, women want quality time with their men. Don't act immature on the date, do whatever you can to please her.
2007-03-16 18:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by cobra427jah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being romantic like sending her 5 dozen roses or taking her out to a nice restaurant. You could also plan to spend the day with her and give her all your attention so she will feel special... If that doesn't work find someone else... Maybe she really doesn't love YOU and it is time for you to consider
moving on.
2007-03-16 18:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by mnm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you attentive when she is talking to you?
Are you willing to do the things that she wants to do, even if you are not really interested in doing them?
Do you do nice things for her to surprise her, like making dinner?
If you can answer these questions truthfully and you are not doing these things, then these things will definitely help out your situation.
If you have been doing these things and are baffled by your girlfriends attitude towards you, then maybe she is not the girl for you. She wants the world and is making unreasonable demands on you.
Only you can answer these questions.
2007-03-16 18:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants your attention. So give it to her. You need to show her that you love her, get her flowers and chocolate. You need to tell her that you love her and why you love her. Just like little things that you love about her, like her hair, or that way she crinkles her nose when you touch her nose with your finger lol(just and example), just little things. She will see that you love her and wont question it anymore. Have a long talk with her. She will understand and if she doesnt.. then she is hinting that she wants to break up with you maybe.., Hope this helped.
2007-03-16 18:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My tip: get a new girlfriend!
Seriously, if she can't appreciate you when you're doing everything right, that's a bit strange! Or is there something you're not telling us? Why does she think you don't love her and that you don't want to be with her?
2007-03-16 17:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Don't cheat. 2) Pay attention to the smallest of details. 3) buy her a gift, at least on a weekly basis. 4) Go out with her and dedicate her at least 2 hours daily. 5) NEVER ditch her for going out with your friends. 6) Never answer back. 7) NEVER EVER force her to do something she dislikes, even when she forces you to do something you dislike. 8) Praise her every day. 9) Praise her on the phone. 10) If all else fails, you can go find another girlfriend who appreciated you for who you are.
2007-03-16 18:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by professor.shiroguma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know how old you and her are, but if youve been together awhile and youre at an age where you may be thinking about marriage, that may be what she's thinking
not saying you have to propose, but maybe just start talking about the future more
if this is not the case, dont know what to tell you brother
good luck
2007-03-16 17:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to turn you into a "nice guy" -which ironically will destroy the "chemistry" she had along with the entire relationship in most cases
Now if you are actually crazy enough to do this - remember when she dumps you for being "too nice" - it won't bother her one bit as chicks actually enjoy dumping these fools
2007-03-16 18:07:31 · answer #9 · answered by JET99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your woman is not serving you enough. Let her know how much you need her. Teach her how to:
1. Prepare creative meals with variety
2. Launder your clothing with precision
3. Give you daily massages.
4. Keep the home nice and tidy making all feel welcome to visit.
That should do it! Good luck. My wife has learned great and she loves me for it.
2007-03-16 18:01:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not start by telling her that....and second do something really special for her...take her out to dinner or do something really special for her...show her that you love her, spend a whole day with her something that will make her believe you!
Good luck!
2007-03-16 17:59:51 · answer #11 · answered by Daughter of a Coma Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋