i have been talking to this guy for a year. we have gone out on a couple dates but we talk all the time. hes just really busy and stressed out from work. well the other day he took what i said the wrong way and automatically jumped and said if your going to be that way then dont talk to me ever again. (but he claims he likes me a lot) but i expained myself and he said we would talk about it later. do you think he was just really stressed out and had bad day. and should i forgive him? he has said it one other time out of anger. what should i do?
2007-03-16 17:50:10 · 9 answers · asked by sunshine24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can ask him, don't forgive until you hear his answer. Sounds like he gets pissed off really easy.... and if he's too busy for you then why are hanging around?
2007-03-16 17:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sunshine, I think it's kind of a red flag. You don't know each other very well, but he's already freakin out on you. Unless he has some kind of really really good reason for being really stressed out that day, it might be good to avoid him. It's disrespectful and abusive on his part. Or maybe I should just put it this way... if a chick freaked out on me like that when we just started going out there's no way I would go out with her again.
2007-03-17 02:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by Pallas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stress...maybe. Do you two ever talk about going on dates and is he always the one who thinks of the excuse not to? Do you know if he really likes you that way? Either way, if he is jumping you because he is stress, I would see that as a big sign to back away. You shouldn't be with anyone who is going to jump your butt whether he is stressed or not. I dunno, just don't sound good to me. Good luck and follow what you feel on the inside.
2007-03-17 00:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by AHHHHhhhhh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this how its going to be always with him? His job is always going to stress him out and he's going to snap at you and take things the wrong way? Do you want to live this way with him? I think this is a red flag.
2007-03-17 00:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by Lana 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
give him some time alone..
he's most probably just stressed out.
and u came along, so he just snapped.
relax girl`
2007-03-17 00:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by Crab` 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should quit nagging him about it. Leave him alone and if he wants to contact you he will.
2007-03-17 00:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by Grampa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes,you should forgive him dome ppl have hard days as long it isnt a daily basis
2007-03-17 00:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by diana w 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he doesnt know what he is saying and dats not good .....
its like he is not intersted in u....or else he wouldnt do that
2007-03-17 00:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by BaBY aNGel..~* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but i can't answer your question until i have more information.
2007-03-17 00:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by marauder at heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋