If the girl you loved more than anything found some kind of proof that you had cheated on her at the beginning of your relationship and the only reason you didn't tell her was because you were so scared of losing her what would you say or do?? Would you make up another lie as to how it doesn;t mean you cheated or break down and tell her??
2007-03-16 17:36:05 · 10 answers · asked by MelC 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK I didn't cheat I found proof that he may have cheated!!
2007-03-16 17:41:12 · update #1
Whatever you do, DON'T lie again!! It can only make things worse. And it is a bad way to start a marriage. If she can't forgive then maybe she's not someone you should marry. And if you are the cheatin' kind maybe you should not get married either. But whatever you do, don't lie again. Good luck!
2007-03-16 17:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by Candy Land 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if they are scared they might lose you it means they sort of have feelings for you but if they are scared they might lose you and make up another lie then that might be true. But if that happens then break up with that person and don't go on any further, trust me even if there is a reason they give you why they are cheating on you still if they truly love you they wouldn't do that ....... even though I never went on a date before I know what to do though... good luck
Kevin
2007-03-17 00:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, do not make another lie. That one will be exposed even quicker.
No use in denying. Admit to it. Tell her it meant nothing, it was a stupid mistake. Love is a many splendored thing, and if she truly loves you, she'll forgive you.
If she hasnt found out, destroy any proof, and find the nearest church and confessional. That way, in some sort of way (i am not religious) you might be saving your ***.
And your best bet, is to not think of that affair.
2007-03-17 00:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by theskybelow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letting the truth come out and admitting fault is much safer than lying again. If You were able to build enough strength into the relationship it will survive. If not then it is best to clear the air and go forward.
2007-03-17 00:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would tell her..cuz if ur plannign on builing a long relationship with her such as marriage..that is commitment and a relationship based on trust and respect..so u shoudl tell her rather than her finding out later..because partners do tend to find out...and don't lie..cuz ur just gonna keep digger a bigger and bigger hole for urself..if u tell her now then she will gradually heal...but if u tell her after and wait then she will wonder how come u didn't tell her and u mite have a hard time to get her back.
2007-03-17 00:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by grooveygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love the person why would you cheat on them?
2007-03-17 00:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by BrandonM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Especially after he has gotten away with it the first time. Ask yourself if living with a cheater is how you see your future.
2007-03-17 00:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the heck did you cheat anyhow?
2007-03-17 00:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would have to let them go cuz if they dont love me enough not to cheat on me then they dont love me
2007-03-17 00:39:15 · answer #9 · answered by @XD_inc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch NORBIT!!!!!!!!
2007-03-17 00:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋