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why is this kid doing this to me?
well, there is this one boy in my 1st hour class, and i sit behind him due to the stupid seating charts*evil little things* ANYWAYS, he turns around and knocks my books off my desk. he is not trying to be ~*mean~* like in a bully way, but then he laughs at me. i laugh back, but its kinda funny and annoying at the same time. lol. today this one boy and him were throwing around a bouncy-ball in class when the teacher was in the hall, and it went under the teachers desk, he turnd around to me, and was like "da da da daaa ill get it." and he ran up in front of the class and landed on his knees down to his stomach jumped up, and looked me square in the eye,and i just glared at him (in a friend play way. but i was laughing at the same time) and he sat down and knocked my pencil off my desk. what a butt! lol i call everyone a butt lol. but like jeez. im not going to tell on him or anything, cuz in 7th grade you dont taddle(tattle sp?).

2007-03-16 17:16:10 · 24 answers · asked by Dani 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

and im in 7th grade too
age 12
thanks for your time!

2007-03-16 17:22:45 · update #1

and i cant tell him i like him...cuz hes not popular, but neither am i, but ill go WAY down(on the popularity chart) if anyone finds out that i like him...
UGH what do i do
and WHY is he doing this to me!?!?!
thanks again for ur time!

2007-03-16 17:25:25 · update #2

and its not like he knocks my book off my desk EVERY day, like every 1 week or 2
its not really bothering me that much
its like an escape from learning about the wolves in the wilderness, or watching oprah. that gets boring. yeesh.
but if i tattle on him he might get moved...and omg! im soo confused..
try to help plez!
and thanks to who did help! :D

2007-03-16 17:28:24 · update #3

and, im not saying that im better than anyone! its just that i dont want to be embarassed/made fun of for the rest of my 5 yrs in school......

2007-03-17 06:14:50 · update #4

24 answers

What the crap does this have to do with pregnancy and parenting.

2007-03-16 17:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by SnifftheSharpie 3 · 4 2

What do you care if your popular ... Every one in junior high and high school is so focused on being popular. Let me tell you this, if you re so worried about what others think you will never have a mind or a life all your own. I have been on both sides of the fence. I have been a dork and popular. I still dated the geeks. Man no matter what any one says the dorks rule the world. They are your political leaders, Dr's, lawyers and much much more. These bright young men and woman are your future. SO what if your not popular. He is OK with who he is and seems to display all the normal signs for a 12 year old to have a crush.. trust me you will not be remembered as the girl who dated the dork. face it we all have a little geek in us. it is the quarks that make us , us... The class clownes are your future comedians. The band geeks are our future rock stars. More so our choir geeks are you next Britney spears and lord knows out artists are the future in design. You are so worried about what others are gonna think you are not stopping to realize this person though not popular is still probably going to be quite hot when he is less fumblie and nervous. This boy is not even threw puberty yet he could be the next male model .. don't judge a book by his cover you need to read the book to do the report talk to this boy get to know him don't be so standoffish. You are 12 years old dating is not that big of a deal but if you like him tell him.... This whole situation reminds me of the song "skater boy" will you ever be hating your self if this happened to you. OK so the foot ball players are hot now wait till there 6' some thing 3 hundred lbs Bald with missing teeth suffering from multiple concussions and burnt half there brain cell when there done in there short lived career.


My point is you are a young woman prob. . more mature then this boy but don't just shut him out or blow him off at least talk to him either face to face or on the phone you like him get to know him. Don't worry about your friends if they were half that smart they would do the same ....

2007-03-16 19:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by savannah_smiles25 2 · 1 0

whoa. lol im in 8th grade and the same thing happened to me last year...i sat behind this kid i liked (actually we had liked each other for almost two years by that time) and he would grab the front legs of my desk and lift the front of it up a few inches...it was funny but kinda annoying, like you said. just come up with something random, like the teacher already told you that you guys needed to stop playing around in class or whatever...that'll probably get the point across to him.
about the popularness (yes i know thats not a word lol) dont even worry about it. when people started realizing that i liked this kid, i went way down on the scale...lower than i already was, which wasnt high to begin with. now im hang out with the "losers" (which arent losers at all) im still friends with the "popular" kids (which are only popular cause they call themselves that) and me and this kid have been together a little over a year and we're completely happy!
so just play along with whatever he does, it sounds like he already likes you and is trying to get your attention. he'll ask you out soon enough ;) good luck!

2007-03-17 11:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

it is very obvious that he likes u and so what if ur popularity goes down. u know that that is something people in ur class just make up. u may be popular in ur group pf friends sso who cares. And yes i know exactly how u feel, im a freshman in highschool, and guys still do that kind of stuff. if u like him just tell him im sur ehe likes u back. By the way if u do take my advice and tell lhim he may deny that he likes because thats just what guys do but he'll warm up. Also as the years go on they only get worse but we still cant live without them.

2007-03-22 05:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by Chelsea F 1 · 0 0

To those answering this question by saying something of this sort, "what in the world does this have to do with pregnancy and parenting!?", lighten up! This little one just wants to ask a question not be skewered for it. Did you stop to think that maybe "Dani" doesn't have any close girlfriends, parent, or sibling that she can share these things with? I think it's sweet! And, yes Dani, I agree with some of the other posts. I think this young man has a crush on you! Enjoy the attention because it's when boys STOP doing crazy things to get your attention that you'll truly be perplexed! Good luck and keep us posted!

2007-03-16 18:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by kimmer 1 · 1 1

As everyone has said, he likes you. Only you can know what is the right thing to do socially in your situation, but a few pieces of information from experience:
1. sometimes being popular does matter so much when you have your own circle you can trust, maybe he could be a part of that
2. a lot of people when they get a little older wish they had followed their own feelings in situations like this and not let "what other people think" determine their choices

2007-03-16 18:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by historydoc 3 · 1 1

Oh, wow, I would not want to go back and do high school again...as everyone else has said, this young man has crush...boys will always be doing stupid stuff to try to your attention...get used to it. If he is truely bothering you tell someone...its ok.

As for the whole popurality thing. I know that that seem REALLY important right now, but when you get out of school I promise that it does not matter. Everyone wants to be well liked, but to not be someone's friend because they are not "popular" is cruel...

GOod luck with school

2007-03-16 19:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by jess_pickel 1 · 0 1

sounds to me like your just scared to like this kid. I know you know he likes you or else he wouldnt be trying to impress you, cause thats what hes trying to do. If you like him then just be his friend, Its not gonna kill you to say Hi once in a while, and those kids that you think are popular are the first one to become losers when they leave H.S so dont depend too much on what they say or do.

2007-03-17 07:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by JUDAS RAGE 4 · 0 0

he bothers you becuase he likes you he is trying to get your attention cuz he dosen't know how to. but if he is getting on your nerves you're going to need to tell your teacher or say that you need to move more closer to the front cuz u can't really see make something up that way you won't like a tattletale.

2007-03-17 09:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny0305 4 · 0 0

He might actually like you, and want your attention, but not know how to get it without being a total butt to you? I wouldn't run out and buy rings, but it's possible he likes you. Tattle.

2007-03-16 17:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by Angela L 3 · 1 1

sweetie he likes you
but if he bothers you that much, write a letter to the teacher and tell her what is going on. or tell her that you are afraid to give up your name but this boy is bothering certain girls in a special part of the room

2007-03-16 17:23:37 · answer #11 · answered by averilyn06 3 · 0 1

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