ok heres the deal i love my boyfriend... really i do, but he is in the navy and is gona alot. he just got home today from a two week leave where he has been in florida and i was not able to speak to him for that two week's. so it snowed here today and the roads are bad, i expected for him to tell me he couldnt come over because of the roads, but he doesn't tell me anything calls me from his friends house and say's well i'm at my friends now and you got work tomorrow so i guess i'll see you on sunday for a bit before i leave.ok normaly i wouldn't care because he really does spend a lot of time with me when he's home and doesn't get to see his friends alot but latly its like his friends mean more then me... i don't get it? i give him love not them so shouldn't i come first not them or am i being a shelfish bi*ch? i don't know i'm just upset right now... someone help...
2007-03-16 17:15:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Although some women may not mind his behavior, you obviously do and it is completely normal. Tell him how you feel, if he doesn't take it seriously or does the same thing next time he is home, start thinking about leaving him. Just try and think 5 years in advance, do you want to waste 5 precious years with someone that will make you unhappy?
2007-03-16 17:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by lxl_serendipity_lxl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it and tell him that you want to see him more. If he wants to see his buds for a bit, let him. I know you wish you could be with him, and that's understandable, but you have to think of what he wants, too. Relationships deal with sacrifice. But definately talk to him about this - he could be totally oblivious that you feel ignored!
2007-03-16 17:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup
2007-03-16 17:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by lyssa1913 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's being the selfish one. maybe he doesn't love you the same. if my man hasn't seen me in 2 weeks he would be all over me. maybe u should evaluate your relationship and find out what's going on
2007-03-16 17:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should get more time than his friends but he should still have a decent ammount of time to spend with them too
2007-03-16 17:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by melanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about how you feel. If you cannot work it out. Move on .......life's to short.
2007-03-16 17:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by foghat77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it.
2007-03-16 17:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by sarai_kristi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋