how would you...?

Question

this is a revision of my last question so here it goes:
i notice this guy but hes not in any of my classes, so he doesnt no i exist. i know him because he plays bball and im a cheerleader.he's pretty quietish and seems of the shy side (*sigh*). hes also a year above me so it sucks. how would you all suggest i approach him?

Answer 1

..."you know, you've never said ANYTHING to me but i think you're a GREAT bball player- let's talk sometime, ok?

Answer 2

Do some research, find out his interests, that way you have something to talk about. You could 'accidently' bump into him. Talk to his siblings if he has any, befriend them, and if you do bump into him say something like, "Are you _________ brother? How are they doing?" And so on. You would have established a start up conversation and he'll wonder who the hell you are and how you know his sibling. Now he's thinking about you. If he has no siblings he must have friends.
I've approached a guy I liked when I saw him reading a favorite book of mine. We talked about the book for half an hour! His interests are the key! It would also help if you knew his friends and maybe have them introduce you or include you in a conversation. I hope this is helpful.

Answer 3

I was on the bball team for my school this year and nearly every bball player has noticed every cheerleader and had his opinion about each one. If he likes you he won't really show it especially if he's shy. If he plays in the games and doesn't warm up the bench (like me) then say good game and get into more detail and really comment on him. I live in VA so idk if it's any different where you live but you can email me if you want.

Answer 4

I have the same problem- but in my one art class and he's shy. I'm going to try talking to him a little more about what we have in common..... So Try complimenting him on bball games or asking what position he plays.

Answer 5

Talk to him. Break the ice. You're a cheerleader, right?

"Hi, I'm XXX and you are?"
"Hi, I'm the cheerleader here as you can see. My name is XXX. What's yours?"
"Hi, I like to be friends with you."
"Want to chill out sometime?"

Remember to smile, be nice & friendly. Shake hands with him when you introduce yourself. If you nees, bring a couple of friends with you to add-on your courage to ask him. But try not to scare him away because he could be shy. And if he's shy, he may take a long while to respond or do not know what to say. Keep your questions simple. Try to get his name & number. And tell him you hope to be friends with him.

Answer 6

throw a party or plan an event and invite him specifically. even if it's just a group movie night at your house or a Fri night at a fun restaurant. talk to him. ask him questions. if you have any classes with him, org. a study group or ask him if he wants to work on a project together.

Answer 7

Start by getting to know him and his friends, have a few lunches with him and his freinds, or if you already know one of his friends, hang out with them more. You only need one person you know that is in to get in yourself. And most importantly, don't act like your all that while there, take things calmly and slowly.

Answer 8

i dont really like the idea. but if u want 2 be noticed do something to stick out farther than the others

Answer 9

i bet he has noticed you cause you are a cheerleader, just smile when you see him and talk about whatever is perfect at that time, laugh at what he says and get his number at the end of the day.

Answer 10

He sounds slammin' hot, girl!!! Just walk by him and "accidently run into him" and say,"Oh, I'm so sorry." Then, try to stand next to him and say,"You know, this line is really long." Just start random conversations.