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but hes one of my best friends and im afraid he doesnt like me back. my other best friend doesnt want me to ask him out because she thinks it would ruin our friendship with him and a couple of our other friends that hang out with him. basically she doesnt want me to go out with him at all. but i reeeeaaallllly like him. I don't want things to be weird, and get my other friend mad at me, but i really want to go out with him. I've had people ask him if he liked me and he said yes but then started denying that he said that when they asked again. He says he doesnt like me but im not sure, what should i do?

2007-03-16 17:00:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

13 answers

Take the risk and ask him. To love is to risk getting hurt. But we love not to get love back but becaue of it.

2007-03-16 17:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Take the leap if Faith and ask him. No one can stop you not even you r friends. You have freedom and will to go on to what you beleive must be done. You shoudn't held yourself back and remain speechless forever.

Although we both don't know if it will ever end in a happily ever after story... Love is risk itself so we must take it. Always expect both sides of the coin. Either heads which is the positive outcome. Or the tails, which is the negative outcome. You should prepare yourself for whatever comes. After all we should be ready for the future, there comes another adventure, of joy and happiness or tears and sadness.

Although there's a possibility of this ending in tears, you should remember that even if this is probably the worst heartbreak you'd experience, it's still a blessing . It may be the worst nightmaire leaving you with lonely sleepless nights but it's only gods way of saving you from the wrong one.

To love is to risk not being loved in return. and thats alright too. We love because of love. Not to get something in return. To hop is to risk pain. To try is to risk failure. But risk must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risk nothings, does nothing, is nothing. He may avoid suffering and sorrow but he can't learn, feel change or grow. He has forfieted his greatest trait and that is his individual freedom. Only the person who risk is free.

2007-03-16 17:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by Love or hate? 3 · 0 0

if you like him it doesn't matter what ur friends think of who u should date or not. he's denying it cuase probably he doesn't want to let others know the fact that he likes u....he's hidding it....if he doesn't like you in the first place then he wouldn't said "yes" when your friends ask him. In this case he does like you...even if his interest in you is not alot, but there's still a spark btwn you two. ASK HIM by your self...you'll never know what well happend...and you don't want to regret it later on. best luck to you!! :]

2007-03-16 17:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by ceec 4 · 0 0

hmm... hard one... you're like Macbeth, where he wants to kill his friend, but decides not to do it because they have mutual friends. so instead, he hires hit men. but that's beside the point. the point is, if you absolutely like him, talk to your friend and convince her that she were to be your true friend she would allow you to take this risk. but if you're not sure that he likes you, make sure before you actually do take this risk and end up losing someone. so first, confront him, ask him if he really does like you and ask him if you two have a shot. if you don't, then no harm done, you just wanted to know. but you do, tell your friends that you will try to make everything work between him and your other friends. basically, do what you heart says. cliched i understand but true. good luck!

2007-03-16 17:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by flippinapple 2 · 0 0

just talk to him, say like my friends say you like me, and i think i feel the same way, but i don't want to ruin our friendship or like have it be all weird, but i do like you
its being honest and you give him room to be honest, let his true feelings show, look if you are nervous of the friendship getting ruined then imagine the feeling of you two together, doesn't that feel so right, so just go ask him

2007-03-16 17:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by :) 3 · 0 0

ask him out. there's a really good chance he likes you too. when he started denying that you liked him, he was worried that people were spreading it around or were telling you and your friends. if he's your best friend, and says no, you'll go back to being friends. it happened to my best friend. trust me on this one!!!!

2007-03-16 17:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by skigrrl66 3 · 0 0

i think that hes beginning to deny it because he didnt like everybody knowing his business. if you are sure that your friendship will stay tight then go for it and ask him out!

2007-03-16 17:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by A BeAtLe LuVeR 2 · 0 0

gradully get there. Go see a movie and ask him there or see a movie and then see another one the following week and then ask him. You don't have to get to him directly

2007-03-16 17:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by marshallbball2323 1 · 0 0

well ask him urself. if he does like u, dont mind ur friends, they will understand tht u guys like each other, and that u r meant to be with each other. i think ur friend, who told u not to tell him, she s just jealous, and wants him for herself. so be quicker than she is, and ask him first.

2007-03-16 17:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ask him yourself... just say,"I dont mean to freak you out or anything, but I heard that you like me, and please tell me the truth. I really won't be mad if you say 'yes'."

2007-03-16 17:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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