My gf is everything to me
i love her
we have been together for 8 months
but lately we have been getting into fights
over lil things
i just want her to be happy
i have become very jealous
and i just want 2 stop that and treat her right
i dont have a car
so she comes to visit me often
i love her so much
and she doesnt think that i appreciate her
some one please tell me what i need to do.
i dont trust her becuz she cheated on me in the begining of the relationship
and she has alot of guy friends and doesnt really get along with girls.
please help me
advice!! any 1?
2007-03-16 16:59:27 · 4 answers · asked by RICHBOY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't trust her (and don't get me wrong, you have a good reason not to trust her), then you don't love her.
So you must wonder, "What is this emotion if it's not love?"
It's fear. You're afraid of who or what you'll be without someone to call your own.
You're not healthy if a girl who cheats on you is "everything" to you. You need to move on and work on building some self-respect. You deserve more than that, but you gotta respect yourself first. It's not your fault that you haven't gotten over being betrayed like that. You need to spend some time WITHOUT her before you can expect to heal from that.
2007-03-16 17:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she's so p***** off.Nothing and if she doesn't tell you then dump her.She wouldn't be Mrs.Perfect if she ain't honest!!Don't give woman that cheated on you a 2nd chance!They deserve to be dumped if they hurt you!I'm soooo sorry she hurted you and yes it's a possible she's cheating on you.
2007-03-17 00:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have both of you Read a book
The one i am talking about is
Men are from mars, woman are from venus.
its full of lots of good stuff i have been reading it myself and is in the top ten for books for such things.
2007-03-17 00:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by ldsironman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fighting is essential to every relationship. i know bc me and my bf fight every week. over stupid things and over seriousl things. its a part of a normal relationship. its okay to fight. tell her that you appreciate her and ask why she thinks you don't....and why don't you trust her? ask yourself if she has changed from the beginning of your relationship. it seems like she just wants to go out and do her own thing w/out directly telling you that she wants to just be alone. ask her what she wants.
2007-03-17 00:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by parveeahmed 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋