Ok so this girl I really like went to a movie tonight with me and a friend. A few days ago out of no where we kinda started hugging/cuddling, and there was a bit of making out. I asked her if it ment anything the next day and she said that for the moment no and she wasn't sure if it would and that she didnt want to lead me on. So today when we went I felt like she was totally leading me on... we held hands for about half the movie she had her head on my shoulder a couple times. However there were a few times where she kinda took her hand away when I reached out for it when she kinda put her hand near mine. So on the way home she asked how long I liked her, and I told her, then I thought Id clarify what happened tonight and asked if anythings changed since we last talked about how for the moment she didnt see me like that. She said not really?! But it was a more quiet and mellow and took her a while to answer. So Im totally confused. Her actions say one thing but her words say another..
2007-03-16 16:15:49 · 12 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't you know?
the good looking ones are always crazy.
2007-03-16 16:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by 987654321abc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls are just like that. Plus, it seems you are rushing things. You can not get different answers after one night at the movies. Perhaps also, it may have seemed you rushed into holding her hand too much. She may have just liked that feeling of being close to you without holding hands. Just give her time and her space, if she keeps acting like nothing is going to happen or she doesn't like you like that, then move away and steer clear.
2007-03-16 16:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by Dingdingdong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like she's as confused as you or maby she is trying to hide you from someone like my bff is going through the same thing first she and him will be making out then they will hate each other and now they kiss and hug all the time and it means nothing to them, im even confused but they just go with it like you should go with the flow things will turn out and if you think they won't just tell yourself everything happens for a reason...
2007-03-16 16:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by K a p i i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's using you for an ego trip or something.Or she could be afraid to let feelings show after to many bad relationships, talk to her and find out wot she's afraid of, or you could just be upfront with her and tell her wot you are feeling . Good Luk.
2007-03-16 16:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow, don't rush. Take a few days to know her more. Maybe invite her on a date, so you two can get to know each other more. If she rejects you, and still wants to tag you alone then you need to find someone better.
2007-03-16 16:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by Questions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude actions speak way louder than words!!!!! she is in to you but she has things holding he back, mabey parents mabey issues. but the main thing is not to give up, dont show her less attention because she hasent made up he mind show her more. keep talking to her, about any thing it doesnt matter show her that you want to be with her. you can make it work. girls.. you just have to get to know them. sry we're confusing. lol
2007-03-16 16:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by basketballchic575 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clearly she wants you... take the lead ask her out if she says thats not what she ready for dont let her toy with your emotions like that. i think she has the hots 4 you. and just waiting for you to take the lead.
2007-03-16 16:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by ladielace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's afraid. it seems as though she likes you but she's not sure if she's ready to for commitment. try to be patient. if your having fun going to the movies with her, continue, but dont keep askign her where she stands every night. give her time... sooner or later, she'll come around
2007-03-16 16:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by Ellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's an old song that goes "I want you to want me". I think that says it all. She IS leading you on. She wants you to want her. But she doesn't want you. She knows she might break your heart deep down inside so she's trying to warn you. But if you play along dispite her warnings you will probably get your heart broken.
2007-03-16 16:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude. keep it the way it is. If she is giving your b/f affection w/o the responsibiblity see how far you can get & don't sweat it.
2007-03-16 16:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by big_jim_27_real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to see her, but talk about something else. If and when she feels differently, she'll let you know. (They always do.)
2007-03-16 16:20:42 · answer #11 · answered by bullwinkle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋