I just got In an argument with my bf because he never keeps his word, he told me last night he wasnt going out that it was my night and Today he bought a concert ticket knowing that i was gonna be pissed and didnt tell me untill the last minute... I gave him an ultimatum ( i know bad thing to do) I told him it was his ******* concert or keeping his word to me and he chose to go, I told him that I needed time to think about it and i would let him know what i ws gonna do..... he went on telling me that he loves me alot and cares about me but he doesnt wanna waste 50 bucks.....I just need some advice... I really love him But his going out is exessive, and Its more important than me and i dont like that, Ive talked to Him about it many of times.... So yeah, Some advice Please
2007-03-16 16:10:59 · 8 answers · asked by Artsy-Fartsy-Momma 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok so I want answers last tme i posted a question only 1 person answerd
2007-03-16 16:33:35 · update #1
1st things 1st, there's a time and place 4 everything, a time for frenz, a time for family and a time for ur partner. ur bf needs 2 get his priorities straight and live up to the expectations of a real man which includes sacrificing his frenz, hobbies or even money at times, wats 50 bucks compared to true love?you should allow him breathing space but not too much, try going out wit ur frenz sumtimes or with him other times. you also need 2 be careful how you talk to him respect is due always and you seem to be very assertive,if he really loves u, he should let love guide him. most men only express their true feelings when they believe their relationship might be threatened, talk 2 him nicely and await changes,if he doesn't change then you have 2 make a decision since ur happiness is being compromised,follow ur heart
2007-03-24 14:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by sexysania01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if going out once a week w/ his friends it's ok but when it is more than once, it is showing that he would rather be w/ his men rather than you. Also, if he said it was your night 2gether & chose 2 do something else u need 2 play some reverse psychology w/ him.Say something like "oh you're going out"?Then get on ur phone in front of him & call some of ur guy friends up & ask them if they would like 2 go & have a drink or something. Show him that u r confident & if he can do it so can u but come home w/ a hicky on ur neck & maybe it'll piss him off & make him think about his behavior. Pull those big panties up girlfriend & get tough. Don't let him see you get upset over his immature behavior. Fire back baby!
2007-03-24 23:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by Tricia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keeping your word is a way of showing you really care about someone. If you don't break up with him then you will have to keep on coming back to yahoo answers and asking "Wat do i do?" If you do break up with him then you can meet guys that will appreciate you and respect you. You deserve better than that! obviously this guy is treating you like crap! I hope you make the right choice.
2007-03-24 22:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by Reeses' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keeping a promise is showing respect. He obviously does not respect you enough to save one night just for you. No one deserves that kind of disrespect. Find someone new. There are plenty of guys out there who know a good thing when they find it, this one is clearly blind.
2007-03-24 19:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by mlrgemini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys don't like breaking up with girls so they be complete jerks in the hope that you'll break up with them. This sounds like that kind of situation to me. That kind of inconsiderate behaviour seems forced
2007-03-24 12:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by tarakootenay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't like ultimatums. And no one likes to be nagged. Let him go and find someone else to be your boyfriend.
2007-03-24 22:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by nowyouknow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, he obviously really does NOT care about you that much.
2007-03-20 16:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by Defunct 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the a*s hole ,,,then call me my love
2007-03-24 14:55:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋