2007-03-16 16:03:59 · 13 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only way to ever start over is after a break. Cheating is serious and hard to let go of. If he evens the score, then there will be two people upset. No matter what you decide, his cheating will only make matters worse.
2007-03-16 16:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by Hypocrite Hunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right. He would be contributing to the deterioration of your relationship. Even though you made that mistake 6 years ago, for him to do the same thing will not make things better.
He needs to find another way to get past it. After so many years, he really should have by now.
2007-03-16 16:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by honeyrlr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did he just find out or has he known for awhile....that's the question. One of the most painful things to happen to
a faithful person is to be betrayed. I believe if you cheated
once, you'll do it again ........STDs are too dangerous to
take chances on.....therefore, IF he is now wanting to even the score and DOES, the danger is doubled. I recommend you two split up once and for all!
2007-03-16 16:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why now after 6 yrs does he want to do that or did he just find out about it?
2007-03-16 16:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by AKAPAC69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No two wrongs don't make a right. It will only do more harm to your relationship. If he said he forgave you after it happened then that means he should not be seeking pay back.
2007-03-16 16:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.
Just try to negotiate the details with him.
2007-03-16 18:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think you have any say in the matter?
2007-03-16 16:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. If he can't get over it and forgive you, he needs to let you go.
2007-03-16 16:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's hard. What goes around comes around and no matter what you tell him he will do it anyway.
2007-03-16 16:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by LT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not...leave him bcuz he is never gonna let it go...
2007-03-16 16:08:19 · answer #10 · answered by Aurora Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋