OK I'll try to make this short. I dated my ex for a short time then HE ended it. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. It has been over for more than ONE YEAR. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. IOn the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". I felt disrespected so when I got home I said "bye forever" to him on msn. Then I felt bad so a week later I said sorry to him on msn. Since then I have said hi to him 2 on msn. Then a few days ago he said hi to me on msn & he wanted to know what I had been up to.
2007-03-16 16:00:49 · 4 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We're not dating and we're not really friends? So what title would you give our thing? How does he see ME in HIS eyes?But why does he wanna hangout after one year?
2007-03-16 16:02:29 · update #1
I would define your relationship as two people who know the relationship is over but are too scared to move on. You don't want to be with him, he doesn't want to be with you, but neither of you wants to be alone. But you know what? Being alone for a while is part of a break-up. Deal with it and move on. It's the only way that either of you will be free -- emotionally as well as physically -- to enter into healtier relationships with other people.
2007-03-16 16:06:48 · answer #1 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, that guy is so much older than you and he is just playing mind games with you. he must probably just wants to lead you on and hold you back while he can still date other women.
Ignore him and don't contact him at all. He's not worth your time. Its already been over for more than one year, feelings are no longer the same and I believe you have moved on already. Don't worry, You deserve a much better guy.
2007-03-16 23:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he respects you. He doesn't want to get too involved maybe because he isn't ready for all that you are. He is used to having his way with women, but maybe feels like he would be taking advantage of you. Maybe he is protecting you from himself. Or maybe he genuinely wants to check on you every now and then. He seems to not want the two of you to get attached because he hasn't been successful with you in that way. So maybe, you are better off not defining the relationship and letting it be.
2007-03-16 23:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by nancyshannon53406 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would have already happened. You guys sure your not in middle school?
2007-03-16 23:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by minime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋