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I'm being serious here so please dont leave silly answers.Everywhere I look & turn I see white women with every race of men except their own kind...WHY?I hear races of all colors talk about how they like to date white girls/women becuase they are willing to do whatever it takes sexually to please a man. I know they are much more successful and financially stable than any other race of females. Most races of color have an inferiority complex when it comes to Caucasians also. So I wondering do white men get upset when they see their women with other races?50 years ago I Black man would get hung and killed for even looking at a white girl. Now that is common everyday stuff. I actually get surprised when I see a white female with an all white child nowadays. But it's just not Black guys, I see them with Latino, Indian, and Asian men. Can someone fill me in on this phenomenon?

2007-03-16 15:57:36 · 17 answers · asked by Wisdom 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

I live in Michigan and I'm telling you that's all I see! I had a dude from Pakistan, Punjab, Palestine, American Black men, and a Mexican guy at my job all tell me the same thing within the last 2 months that they prefer a white girl. I swear I dont understand it. I feel like a woman of color especially if she is Black has to work triple times harder to get a husband than a white woman. I dont care what anyone says, there is a blantant double standard when it comes to white women.

2007-03-16 16:07:47 · update #1

17 answers

Not sure really. It might be that other races think of white girls as godly, and they want to get a white girl because they think it makes them "macho", and they can brag to other members of their race, that they got some "white meat".
I agree with you, that other races should stick to their own race and not mix it up like they try to do, with a white girl. Take blacks, for example, they don't realize what white men think of them dating and marrying a white girl. (Most white men think that a white girl that gets it on, with a black guy is nothing but trash.) Why can't each race stay within their own race.???

2007-03-16 16:08:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 7

1) Self-hate (conscious or unconscious) 2) Some just like women no matter what their race is 3) What do you mean by "so many" and where do you get your statistics from? 4) Inter-racial dating is nothing new. It's been around. It's just that now (as opposed to 30-50 years ago) you can't get lynched or arrested for dating a white woman. So you see it out in the open more often. Peace.

2016-03-29 02:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

A phenomenon? Are you okay? Why is this such an issue for you? I do not see this as being so wide spread as you say. What is the issue here. I really feel that you should not be so worried about it unless you are the white woman or the guy dating the white woman.
You need to realize that we are not in 1965 anymore, and get off of this fixation. IT IS NOT A BIG DEAL ANYMORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Are you yourself a closet racist? Or maybe you were replaced by a white woman.
If a white woman were saying a statement like why do white men date black women or women of other races other than their own, ( it happens way more that you think), it would be a national uproar! Get over it and move on. Stop looking at color. Open your closed mind and grow up!!

2007-03-16 16:08:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2 4

There are still some people who refuse to date or marry outside of their ethnic group. I find that weird because I savor variety (like different foods and different music, etc.). With more ethnic diversity in everyday life, people are finding out that folks of other ethnic groups aren't necessarily scary but offer a different perspective on life and love, maybe just a little danger. I see people going out in all sorts of combinations and it's wonderful. Yes, so far Caucasians have been the privileged class more often then other races but that is slowly changing (as any skinhead will tell you loud and clear). I think you see so many Caucasians dating other ethnic folks now because they've finally figured out it's fun and interesting, that people of other ethnicity have a different view of life, bring their own bit of cultural background to the relationship. Depending on where you are, dating outside your ethnic group is no longer a stigma and in fact can be the hot thing to do. People still date within their ethnicity; it just isn't as important or prominent as it was 50 years ago--maybe all those civil rights protests and those that died for more equality are finally seeing the returns of their efforts. I'm just hoping that we all don't forget the cultures we all come from and cherish that too.

2007-03-16 16:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by Inundated in SF 7 · 2 0

I believe some of what your saying because I am a white woman myself and I am on facebook and online dating. I get mostly friends requests from men of different races mostly from the middle east or asia and they do try to flirt with me and say things like they want to marry me or have sex with me. I wish it would be men from nearby but that only happens a quarter of the time. Also I get messages on zoosk and pof from men of different races not just white men. But I do see mostly white women with their own race not with other races so I don't believe that part. I like all races of men but I mostly dated white men.

2016-01-10 12:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 2 · 1 0

I think there is some truth to what you are sayin' but is not the only view to look at the situation of interracial dating. I haven't heard all men say they prefer white women. For instance, and there could be a number of reasons for this, but I am a black female but am approached by white guys more than any other race. I am not saying that that means white guys prefer black females, but I don't think generally speaking men prefer white women.

2007-03-16 16:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 3 3

I believe that if you have an issue with something you will recognize it more than anything else. I don't really see that many colored people with white women. However, when I do see colored people with white women or men I don't really care. I realize that when people have issues with themselves, a lot of times, they like anything different from themselves. As long as you are not ashamed of your race, you should be able to date whoever you please.

2007-03-16 16:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by Pseudonym 5 · 3 2

race does not matter as long as you are in love. i seen white men with a black women and i do not get offended! what really offends me how ever are these ignorant racist people that are on this yahoo answers. they all need to be shot! love is love as long it's not lust! race should not matter i wish i was around 50 years ago when they were doing that ignorant sh*t i would have opened up a can of a$$whipping

2007-03-16 16:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by thelement_99 2 · 5 2

Huh? Okay, maybe its the area you live in ..... everyone likes everyone where I'm from. However, if you are in an area where there's little to no diversity, I can't see why you feel isolated.

I suggest that you move ;)

2007-03-16 16:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by rosie768 3 · 0 1

girl whats wrong some girl took the one that you wanted dont feel that way dont get sucked into the hype. maybe that one wasnt the one for you im sure there some white girl sitting somewhere saying the same thing that you are. its all about timing you will get the one that you want in due time....

2007-03-16 16:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by ladielace 2 · 5 2

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