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There's this guy, and we're both seniors in HS. Our Junior year, we were close friends, played video games together, hung out alot, always talked, and have lunch together almost everyday. Needless to say I started having feelings for him.

Senior year, I tell two of my friends I like him, and they wouldn't tell a soul...even if they had a gun to their head they wouldn't tell. So, senior year comes around around we still talk a little bit, but not near as often as we used to.

Background, during these two years he has had girlfriends, like 1 or 2 of them. I was really close with one of my male friends, but not in a sexual way or anything.

Can anyone tell me what is happening? Should I just ignore him and hope that I forget about him or confront him? All input is appreciated.

2007-03-16 15:45:28 · 20 answers · asked by half_pint122000 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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i dont really think that anyone could ever tell u what s going on with ur friend. only way u can find out what's happened with him, why he s changed, is if u ask him. i dont know, it might be u guys dont see each other as often as u used to, it might be he s more busy. who knows why he doesnt hang out with u no more? anywyas, u should ask him why he s changed, what s happened in between u 2, why u ve gotten so distant this year??? and then tell him a lil bit about how u feel, tell him that u recently discovered u had developed feelings toward him, and u would like to know how he feels. do me a favor and email me, i could probably help u a lil more with ur situation. so keep in touch, and good luck.

2007-03-16 15:54:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

This happened to me back in HS too. The guy was an exchange student from england so he didn't know anyone. I was a nice girl and showed him around and of course fell hard and completly in crush with him.

Second year (our senior year) he didn't even "know" me or knew that I was alive. What happened? A cow slut came around and milked him, if you know what I mean...

Actually looking back on it, it was also my fault. If I had told him how I felt maybe he wouldn't have turned to the cow during the summer. Oh well. I'll never forget him and even to this day, English guys make me swoon. :)

2007-03-16 22:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by cnith 4 · 0 0

He may not know how you feel, but if he did....maybe he feels the same way, but thinks you think of him as a friend. Since he doesn't know maybe you should tell him, what's the worst that could happen? He could stop talking to you even less than he does now, OR romance could be in the air! Go for it, you only live once!!! Good luck!

2007-03-16 22:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by cat12 2 · 0 0

Sometimes feelings change, especially if you go for a period of time without seeing each other. You can try these things, #1, Play it cool, smile and say hi, don't be to eager or clingy, guys HATE that. Or #2, Bite the bullet girl and ask him out! Does he have a gf now? If not, just ask. Be cool about it. {ps. in the event he says no, don't sweat it! Take it from me, there's a lifetime of guys out there!!!}

2007-03-16 22:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by isis8x3 2 · 0 0

HMMM. That's a toughie. If I were you I would ask him what is going on with him. I know its not all that easy to ust sit and talk with someone but after you ge started you should be allright. I dont think you should just decide to forget about him. He might not even notice that he is acting differently toward you so just let him know. HOPE I HELPED!!! KEEP ME POSTED.

2007-03-16 22:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by fombellgirl 2 · 0 0

well think of it this way, IT'S YOUR SENIOR YEAR! after graduation, you might not EVER see HIM AGAIN! so, why not give little hints? and if he doesn't get it, then he's just stupid and tell him somehow. it doesnt have to be out front or anything. just try, there's no reason not to. and also.. if he doesnt have feelings for you. the school yrs almost over and you might never see him again.

2007-03-16 22:49:57 · answer #6 · answered by KikkomanLady 2 · 0 0

You didn't mention how the summer went...just sounds like he may have his head somewhere else, but I bet your welcomed to strike up a conversation or hint that maybe the two of you can go out...worth a try.

2007-03-16 22:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0 0

why on earth would you confront him...about what, about the fact that he's not your best bud anymore? you just said it yourself that you had other close male friends, and he's had girlfriends...
if you like him-like-him, then tell him that you LIKE HIM, don't confront him and scare him off---guys dont like being confronted, this aint a madea movie, it's real life!

2007-03-16 22:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0 0

Go ahead and confront him. Whatever happens, at least you will finally know how he feels and will be able to move on.

2007-03-16 22:49:35 · answer #9 · answered by fritzpatch 2 · 0 0

I think you'll need to come out and tell him hun

if he feels the same way, than he'll let you know

if not, he shouldn't let it ruin a great friendship!

2007-03-16 22:48:55 · answer #10 · answered by shy_gurl 2 · 0 0

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