In all actuality, she didn't hate him until she found out he hated her. I love my boyfriend with every inch of my being, but my best friend is my best friend/b> and I can't deal with him not being social towards any of my friends, especially her. He's anti-social, and wants me to himself. AllI ask is for him to be able to let her and her boyfriend accompany us to lunch, the movies, etc every once in a while. What should I do?
2007-03-16 15:44:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you love him so much the answer is easy. When it's true love the one you're with becomes your best friend, and no friend or someone who loves you would be unfriendly to someone that you love. It's not love. They would be courteous to that person because they love you. I love my best friend, she cares about her boyfriend, but I dislike him. I am courteous around him because I love her and he was courteous to me because he loved her. First off, if you're not a social reject you don't date one because that can cause a lot of trouble anyway. Second your personalities are going to clash too much it's a bad idea. Bottom line if he loves you he'll love every part of you, you're best friend is an extention of you, so if he can't respect her then you don't need to be with him. Eventually you're going to have to choose. You shouldn't have to tell him to be nice to your friends. That should be something that comes natural, but tell him that he either has to respect your friendship with her or you need to find someone who will. Splitting your time against the two of them is going to be hell, how long are you going to be able to do it if you don't choose? You should think about that too. Good luck babe!
2007-03-16 15:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep them appart. My ex-girlfriend assaulted my best friend, broke his nose, and the who thing ended up in a court case.
You boyfriend should be more mature though. Maybe if you give him an incentive to be nice the her. Buy him something nice if he is on good behavior or plan a special evening together as a reward.
Good luck!
2007-03-16 15:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by Hypocrite Hunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are questioning your boyfriend. Being anti-social and alienating you from your friends and loved ones is a red flag, a warning sign that he might be an abuser.
2007-03-16 15:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first, i might question why your boyfriend is calling your "suited buddy" after his 6 o'clock dinner rather of you. What became their combat approximately? it sort of feels extremely extraordinary to me that your b/f use to love your suited buddy or maybe asked her out as quickly as? What this sounds want to me?-----your b/f noted as your suited buddy rather of calling you using fact possibly he nonetheless likes her (extra effective than he ought to). Your suited buddy have been given pissed at his advances and now they're annoyed at one yet another. Ask them the two what "rather happened" (attempt the previous bait and turn--tell the b/f that your suited buddy instructed you each and every thing and visa versa) and notice which one among them comes clean with you first. keep the friendship/courting with the truthful one and get rid of the different. it rather is happened to me and that i'm particular it rather is happened to many others; the suited buddy hits on the b/f or any incorrect way around--one gets annoyed on the different and you experience caught interior the middle, such as you presently might desire to compliment between them. keep on with your instincts, your gut....ask for the reality and then decide. stable success to you and chuffed New year! :)~
2016-10-18 21:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats because your boyfriend is taking time away from you and your friend tell her that she needs to get over it and that you guys can spend some quality time together on a certain day of the week.
2007-03-16 15:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by bubba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them "Either get along or I won't talk to u guys until u do". I do tat sometimes and it works (We'll for me anyway caz I hav tat kind of a relationship). If they can't get along for u then they don't care for u.
2007-03-16 15:51:42 · answer #6 · answered by JoJo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your boyfriend why does he hate your bestfriend for, if he has a stupid reason for not liking her then tell him that its stupid and should get over it, and he should not hate her for such a gay reason and then your boy/bestfriend can be friends and you guys can go on double dates :D
2007-03-16 15:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by kathie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg it's the same with me. so i talked to each of them and asked them to please get along. i said if they really cared about me they would at least try. they are getting along much better now!!
2007-03-16 15:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by HELP!!!!!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋