Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 4 months and I like him a lot. But we don't go to the same school or even live in the same town. I don't get to see him that much, so I keep questioning the relationship. Is it worth it? There are also other guys that I would go out with if I were single, but I'm NOT going to cheat on him. I know he's not cheating on me; he's not that kind of guy. Even if we did break up, I don't think I would be able to go out with anyone for a while. I'm just really confused on what to do. I have no problem helping other people with their problems, but I can't seem help myself right now. Please help me! If you have any extra questions, ask and I'll put more information. By the way, we are both 15 years old if that helps any.
2007-03-16 15:35:59 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We don't live in the same town, but it's only about 10 or 15 minutes away.
2007-03-16 15:44:40 · update #1
No, I don't LOVE him, but I'm only 15. I don't know what REAL love is yet.
2007-03-16 15:46:59 · update #2
I would say to keep dating him and talk on the phone when you can't be together. Figure you can drive in a year or two, then you can see each other more.
2007-03-16 15:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you like him as much as you say it shouldn't matter how often you see him, just make the best out of the time you do see him, BUT...you are only 15 so you really have to ask yourself if you should be in that kind of serious relationship yet. Don't make yourself grow up too fast. Enjoy your teen years, there's plenty of time to get serious! Maybe you should just ask him for a little break, not break up,just some time so you can figure things out. Good luck sweety:)
2007-03-16 22:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by gone2soon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its not easy when you dont get to see your bf all that much.It makes the relationship that much harder.Im 26 and i was dating a girl who i only got to see twice a week and it was the most difficult thing i had to do.Needless to say we didnt work cuz there wasnt enough time for us.Your still young i say go out and have fun with your life worry about who your bf is later in life.These now are the best times and you dont wanna miss out on anything.
2007-03-16 22:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are much harder when you're younger and can't see each other often. Are you happy with this relationship right now? Is there a way to see each other more often?
If not, I think you two should remain friends. Maybe you'll be able to see each other more some day and that will change.
2007-03-16 22:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 15 years old . you dont see your friend that often. There are other guys you would be happy to go out with.
I think you need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him you think you should not be exclusive but you still want to be friends.
He may have other local girls he would like to go with but he doesnt want to hurt you.
At 15 you should be doing stuff with groups of people or at least go out casually with a few guys.
2007-03-16 23:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all do you love him?If not why still be going out with him.Give yourself a break know other guys.If you don't find anybody that fits him well go back with him.Anyways you know that if you break up he won't have another girlfriend and he still would be free for you:)
2007-03-16 22:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by Astrid J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be worrying so much honey. I would just play it out and see how it goes. If you really like him like u say than it should all work out just be true to each other and talk maybe you can jsut be friends.
2007-03-16 22:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him long distance isnt going to workout in the long run, I would end it before you get hurt, & date someone else that lives in your town.
2007-03-16 22:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by hottasha09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age you should be dating different guys and not stuck with one. By dating different guys you can figure out what you want or dont want in a relationship.
2007-03-16 22:41:31 · answer #9 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The choice is yours, or tell him you want to go out with some of the other people. could we go steadily, which means he's your steady but you both can also date others.
2007-03-16 22:44:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋