How can I get some friends and/or a boyfriend?
2007-03-16 15:35:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have no friends and my counsins are hundreds of miles away. I dont want to go out alone & feel like even more of a loser.
I'd rather be alone in my room than be alone around a ton of people. I'd feel even worse.
What can I do? I really need help! Im starting to think maybe I have a social disorder or something!!?!?!
2007-03-16 15:40:32 · update #1
I dont like going out alone.
Im not trying to just get laid. I want to meet a nice guy but I get so nervous going out alone.
I feel dumb sitting by myself at coffee shops and what not.
I feel like people are thinking "look @ that loser girl whos all alone."
2007-03-16 15:48:25 · update #2
Fri, Sat, & Sun I dont do anything but lay in bed. I cant even get myself to study. I will occassionally go out to buy little things and of course more alcohol!
2007-03-16 15:49:48 · update #3
You need to be a friend before you can get a friend. Maybe you expect to much of people. Do you decide who you want to be friends with by how much money a person has or how they dress or look? People sense that kind of "silent evaluating" based on superficial reasoning. Most people want to be a friend, perhaps you need to extend yourself a bit.
Ask someone you may have misjudged, if they would like to go for coffee or to a movie. You may be surprised at the response you get.
2007-03-16 15:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by 1sflady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have any friends? I dont believe that. Try calling a few people to come over and just chat. Join a club. You will meet the right guy sooner or later. Dont rush things. Get some girlfriends and have a good time. You can all check out the guys at the mall
2007-03-16 15:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by itybittykitty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go out in place where there are people with similar interest look for people like you if guys don't mesh then can't be friends
Always look presentable to what type of person your looking for.
Don't change yourself into sometihng your not just to find friends because there are some people who are naturally solitary or introverted like me. Sometimes I spend my weekends alone but I enjoy it. Be nice friendly and always be well rested!
2007-03-16 15:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mooney Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are consciously and/or subconsciously like being around whole individuals. A part of being a whole individual is feeling good about yourself. Once you get out around people and it doesn't have to be at a bumpin' party or club but once you do so, the combo of an individual who is happy with their self and around people equals friends and maybe something more!
2007-03-16 15:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can meet alot of nice people who share the same interests as you by joining clubs in and out of school. You could also join a sports team, or join your local work out place, in my city it is called the Atheletic Club, there are tons of people there, and I'm sure you would find enjoyable people there. If you are interested in more "sexual" friends, go to a bar, dance around, and see who comes up next to you and asks you to grind with 'em.
Hope this helps!
2007-03-16 15:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by maddie_bales_13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's purposely laying on the guilt holiday. She feels depressing, so the only way she'll be chuffed is to make each and every person else round her sense depressing besides. because of the fact the asserting is going, "misery loves organisation." the perfect you are able to in all probability do is promise her one nighttime a week with in basic terms her and your sisters out someplace. handle her to dinner out or ice cream one nighttime.
2016-10-02 06:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by moffat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and get involved in activities you enjoy.
If you like reading, find a book club. or get involved in some sort of sports activity or chess club...
sometimes it just takes an active effort, but you'll enjoy the results if you're out there and doing something about it
2007-03-16 15:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite people from work to a party at your house. Ask them to bring friends.
Try an on-line dating service. Or the newspaper ads.
2007-03-16 15:40:33 · answer #8 · answered by dirty t 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be like me: Out going, act crazy, flirt, be sexy, all tat stuff. I'm single 2 but i want 2 be. I've been offered but bein single is more fun when u go 2 dances and stuff lik tat.
2007-03-16 15:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by JoJo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO OUT! AND YOU WILL MEET SOME FRIENDS AND MAYBE EVEN THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE! IF YOU HAVE NO FRIENDS TO GO OUT WITH, THEN IM SURE YOU HAVE A COUSIN U CAN USE UNTIL YOU ROUND UP A NEW CREW! GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-16 15:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋