My ex-girlfriend said she loved me and i said i love her too before she left for a 10 day field trip. The first day she was gone we both didnt say i love u on the phone and only talked for 5 mins because she was too tired and had assignments to do, is what she said. Today the second day, she was tellin me how yeah she's havin a good time and its cool and everything, but she said she was alittle sick. We were talkin and it wasn't that great of a conversation, because wut can u talk about with her over there with people in her room. When she basically kicked me off the phone after just another 5 min call she said call me 2morrow. i said aight i love u and she just said ok take care. should i trip. is it jst cuz she's over there, or is she losing feelings cuz of the trip?
2007-03-16 15:34:19 · 2 answers · asked by Benjamin P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her a chance. You said there were people in the room and some people have a hard time with the words...I LOVE YOU... If she really does she will become comfortable with it in time. If she doesn't she will never want to say it in front of anyone. Give it all time and pay attention. You'll find out all you need to know.
2007-03-16 15:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh those 3 little words can cause so much chaos can't they?? dont think into it so much. perhaps she doesnt feel "Love" right now, its ok to not say "Ilove you" back to someone once they say it to you, dont let it get to you. but i wouldnt say it to her anymore, instead id try to show her that i loved her by saying sweet and meaningful things, bringing up old memories, let her know you care about her. then think about love. wait for her to say it next time, then you can say it. that way the pressures off of you.
2007-03-16 15:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by candi b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋