there is my boyfriend and i really like him then there is another guy and i really like him to. i was thinking about cheating but that would be cruel. but i like them the same . . . . . so which do i choose?
2007-03-16 15:33:35 · 11 answers · asked by Ali H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're right, cheating is cruel. So if you really want to do the other guy, you'll have to break up.
Is it worth it?
2007-03-16 15:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should stay with your boyfriend. If you break up with him to see the other guy you may find out that you really don't like him as much as you thought. You definitely don't want to regret letting go of something good. Like the old saying goes, you never what you had until it's gone. I hope this helps. Take care
2007-03-16 15:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by cereza713 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like them both the SAME, and one is already your boyfriend, then why do you need to choose?
Either stay with your boyfriend, or break up and enjoy the freedom to play the field.
2007-03-16 15:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by Hypocrite Hunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to choose cheating is just wrong and leading one of them on is wrong too. Sit back and figure out why you really like these guys and figure out the pros and cons to each. That should narrow it down.
2007-03-16 15:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont cheat! No matter what you do, dont resort to cheating, even breaking up with your boyfriend would be less painful then him finding you with another guy.
if you dont want to hurt anyone, your best bet would be staying with your boyfriend. knowone can tell you who to choose, you have to figure out for yourself which one you really want to be with. also consider your boyfriends feelings, he's in this relationship to.
2007-03-16 15:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by Chrissy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this isnt easy for anyone but i think you should be honest with your feelings and tell your bf whats really going on.This other guy you like is it just lust or do you see yourself with him.If you see yourself with him then maybe you lost interest in your current bf and need something else.That happens just make sure its the right move before going through with it you just might get burned if you dont think before you act out.
2007-03-16 15:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it work with the one you're with. Song by Neil Young of CSNY, "Love the one you're with."
If that ever fails because of bf, you haven't lost class when the other guy sees you again. Else, your reputation follows you.
2007-03-16 15:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't like them the same u just like different things about them but make sure it is worht recking ur relationship over.. because it may seem great now but it may not work out
2007-03-16 16:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by Alise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR DECISION! DONT CHEAT! lies are bad so dont even go there if u are madly in love with your boyfriend!!
2007-03-16 15:37:28 · answer #9 · answered by amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as long as theres nothing thats been said to what you are with them "officially" go for them both!
2007-03-16 15:37:20 · answer #10 · answered by angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋