There's this guy. I know him from class and he wants me. He tells other guys that too. I think he's cute, but skinny and short for a guy. I'm sort of tiny too, but I like guys that are tall. He's smart and quick, but not funny type. what do you guys think. should I go out with him and what factors should I consider. Help me with the process of deciding.
2007-03-16 15:27:11 · 11 answers · asked by yennay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course you should go out with him. You've already answered your own question in that you are slightly interested. A date is NOT a proposal of marriage, it is simply a date. You are not promising a good nor predetermining a bad outcome...you just go and hope for the best. As a matter of fact, if you are attracted to him in every way except the height thing, consider his age and that guys don't grow taller until much later than girls, he may still be a tall man, just hasn't reached that age yet. Listen girl, I normally went out with big, tall, buff guys but once I got to know a guy that was only slightly taller than me well, I fell madly in love with him. So, remember a date....is simply a date.....there is nothing....I do mean NOTHING promised by accepting an invitation to go on a date.
2007-03-16 15:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this question was asked by a man, he would be bashed for being so shallow.
Of course, if you have some interest, go out and see what kind of person he is, don't be so shallow as to mark up all the good and bad points. What if you get FAT later in your life, do you want others judging you by that?
2007-03-16 22:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's skinny and short, so there's two strikes against him right there. Find out if he has a personality. Can he entertain you, make you laugh. Hopefully he is able to make up for the fact that he short & skinny in other ways. FIND THESE THINGS OUT BEFORE YOU GO OUT WITH HIM. If you go out with him and he turns out to be a dud, you may never be able to get rid of his lame a$$.
2007-03-16 22:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by FarOut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know is it going to hurt by going on a date with him.I dont think it will.Plus it will give you the chance to get to know him alittle better not in a class setting.Everyone deserves a chance you will know if he is right for you just by spending time with him alone.So yeah i would consider a date or two to see if there is a spark. Good Luck!!
2007-03-16 22:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find something in him tht u might want him as same soulmate probal. like interseting,wut he thinks abt u by going out i think u guys should go a party because it is a great way 2 knw people not moive okay
2007-03-16 22:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by rOsE_gAl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is your help. Dont settle for less. Sense of humor is major in a dude. You dont have to date the guys just because they like you. No obligations there. Hello..what is the rush. Dont let guilt get the best of you. Just wait. NO hurry.
2007-03-16 22:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its not marriage give it a shot see how things go take the car for a test drive before you buy it
2007-03-16 22:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by TheOneNOnlyTK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes definitely if you like him don't be shallow try to see the personality !
2007-03-16 22:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by Mooney Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out he might be your soulmate
2007-03-16 22:30:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no sense of humor? no way!!
2007-03-16 22:31:46 · answer #10 · answered by snapper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋