Can a woman really make it in life with kids and all with no man? Yes booty once in awhile, but no man living with her, no "boyfriend". All on her own? I am looking at that option. Every time I hook up with a guy, my life spirils out of control.
2007-03-16 15:16:59 · 26 answers · asked by MaryJane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ABSOLUTELY!!!
If you are a Strong, Independent and Determined women you'll get through it...
I'm not saying it will be easy, but it is definitely doable if you believe in yourself (and supportive people around you are always a +++) .
2007-03-16 15:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by Me 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Probably, but it would probably be difficult.
My father was married to my mother for a few years, and then he passed away in an accident at work. So, because of that we get a pension but it's still difficult for my mother. She has to make sure she has a good job all the time so we can make ends meet, and she's had to work really hard to get where we are now (with our own house and all our pets), and it's still a constant struggle to keep the house and make ends meet.(I only turned 16 this year so I'm trying to find a job to help out )
So yes, I'd say it is possible, just very, very difficult.
2007-03-16 22:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by Faye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Behind every successful woman is a man who let her down.
A wise woman said that (I have no idea who).
Sure you can make it in life. I mean you don't have to give up on men altogether. But you could take a "sabbatical" from men maybe. One whole year, let's say. Then re-evaluate.
There are a lot of good guys out there. Maybe if you step back for a while, things will suddenly fall into place without effort.
2007-03-16 22:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by Nina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YOU CAN !!, you do not need a man for validity as a woman. Men have for years drawn their strength from a woman.Women are reasonable and look to resolve problems instead of creating them. First you must let them know up front your expectations as well as you find out theirs.Second: Believe what you see and not what he's telling you, Third he must be independent and somewhat educated therefore he will not look to you for any handouts of support.Plus you do not need a father for your kids, they have one. but a man that can establish his own healthy relationship with them, once he's gain their love then he can participate in discipline. By this time they will have respect for him.
2007-03-16 22:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by Prophet Field 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a woman can make it. But there is nothing wrong with wanting to be loved and share your life with a man. When the right one comes along. If not, you can still be happy, sure.
2007-03-16 22:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by Alyssa Macey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man can make it alone with booty every now and then, why cant a woman? A woman is perfectly capable of taking care of her self and her children.
2007-03-16 22:19:53 · answer #6 · answered by mcpark2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can make it without a man. You should concentrate on raising your children and enjoying them (hard work and all) while you can.
Play games with them, go to parks with them, find some crafts you can do with them.
Believe it or not you will like yourself more and your children can and will give you more love and any man can by sleeping with you and leaving.
You will be more fulfilled knowing you have the love and respect of your children and their children, when the time comes.
When they are grown you will realize what a great thing you have done for them and yourself.
2007-03-16 22:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by 1sflady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure she can providing that she has a job that allows her to. this lifestle might get kind of lonely though, and what if you want kids? it would be hard to raise them on your own, but then again there are many single mothers out there. i don't think you have to limit yourself to this option just yet. i think there is a man out there who will help you keep your life in order rather than making it spiral out of control. and as always, he will find you when you least expect it.
2007-03-16 22:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY. You don't need a man to validate you in any way. I know a lot of strong women who are single with great careers, civic involvement, continuing education, children and no best supporting actor. Some are happier than others. None of them I know seem to be as miserable as the gals who are always b!tching about their husband or bf.
2007-03-16 22:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by Goofy Foot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can, but I think it would be really lonely.
I think that everyone should have someone for companionship and yes some exciting intimacy!
So you don't need a man to help you make it in this world,
but I feel that no one should go through their whole life lonely,
that's so sad.
2007-03-16 22:29:55 · answer #10 · answered by angelkitty238 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you can do it on your own .but kids need the man in their life's. and you want to be happy also. find a good man and live your happy life
2007-03-16 22:23:36 · answer #11 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋