i like this guy and hes pretty much a player and a party guy but he always shows that he likes me and everything but when we are around other people he acts......dumb. like what we do never happened. what should i do should i drop him and move on? help!
2007-03-16 15:16:16 · 7 answers · asked by hi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, impossible to change a person. You can advise all you want, but ultimately a person has to change themselves.
Any man or woman who enjoys having more then one partner can never be completely faithful to any one person. Regardless to how "good" you are to them, they will always do what they want and when they want.
Some people are drawn to players because of the challenge and the popularity you receive when you seen with one.
However, if you're are looking for stability and if you want to retain your integrity (both directly and indirectly), then you may want to chase men who aren't the "player" type. If you continue, you will more then likely get burned.
2007-03-16 15:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by rosie768 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur intrigued because u think u can be the one who turns him around and make him be with u and u only.
This may be the truth, but he definately isnt seeming to be this with u. U r not the one who will make him settle down and he is only using u if he isnt willing to let people know the two of you are together. So...........
Yes, drop him and move on to someone who isnt so macho that he cant admit he is with u. U deserve better.
Someday, this stud muffin of a player will get really tired of what hes doing and wish he hadnt let so many good girls go.
Good luck to u hun.
2007-03-16 22:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A player knows how to play you! Drop him, he'll never change.
2007-03-16 22:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aghh, no. but i would still give a player a chance.
bc sometimes when he REALLY feels you`re the one
he`s willing to give it all up for you. :]
2007-03-16 22:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were u, id find someone else. This guy sounds like a loser.
2007-03-16 22:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Control no, but play him at his same game and don't put your feeling into it. have fun
2007-03-16 22:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea i tried to control one and its pointless he now tlaks to me like im a monkey or something......like im just one of his puppets...............
2007-03-16 22:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by Pom Pon Girl 161377 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋