I broke up with my girlfriend of nearly 3 months earlier this week. I still really like her and want to continue dating, but I don't know what to do. She told me that she felt we had turned into good friends rather than "boyfriend, girlfriend". The whole breakup seems really sudden and leading up to it we didn't really have any issues. I wrote her a letter yesterday explaining how I had tried to build a friendship and respect her because it was her first relationship. In all the time we were dating we never even made out, and I think becuase of holding back this much it may have killed the sparks. Do you think there's any chance of us getting back together and developing a more romantic relationship on top of the friendship we already have?
2007-03-16 15:12:53 · 6 answers · asked by runnerdude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she's not ready for a relationship yet. You seem really nice to be able to handle this, but the worst thing you can do is push her. Why don't you continue being her friend for now and let her make the first move.
2007-03-24 09:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but my duty here is to speak the truth. If your relationship didn't "spark" there is no way it can start again without throuwing in a match. Tell her that you deeply love her and you've been dying without her. Give her time to think about it, after you ask for a second chance. You deserve a second chance so you need to go out and fight for it. Good Luck!
2007-03-24 22:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by LizziFishie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really say that you like her while brake up with her? The best thing to do is this, you should go back to her and aplogy for what you did to her or say to her. Tell her that you still love her and you want to give you another chance to make up whaz you did her. It will be the best thing to as a guy who is really in love and truthful to his girlfriend.
2007-03-24 22:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by Agnes L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u seem like a chill guy. i personally think that its
really awesome how your guy's friendship turned into a semi realtionship. there's a chance because she trusts you (hopefully) so it will be easier for her to let you in romantically, but only if you're willing to give your romantic side to her
2007-03-20 02:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...if she really misses you and if you really miss her..then theres a big chance you can go back with her, and this time ur going to be more romantic since u know what to do and what she wants you to do...so yeah, good luck
2007-03-16 22:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is just tell her how you feel thats the best you can do.. ask her how she feels..
2007-03-24 22:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by Parachutes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋