I was seeing this guy for about 4 months and we were sleeping together without being bf/gf. Mistake, I know, but I knew him from 5 years back and I thought without asking that we would become bf/gf automatically by sleeping together. Well when I asked him what we were he said he wants to keep it casual and that he is interesting in another girl.
This is a girl he has been hanging out with as friends for the last couple months. So my question is, if he has been sleeping with me the whole time, he can't have liked her that much, right? Wouldn't he stop being attracted to me when he started liking someone else? This is really hurting me. Need some insight. Thanks!!!
2007-03-16 15:12:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oops, typo, he is intereted in another girl, I mean.
2007-03-16 15:13:12 · update #1
Even if all he wants is a Friend With Benefits, he should have told you about the other girl before sleeping with you.
Not just for manners, but also for Safe Sex reasons.
Sorry, ma'am- he sounds like a waste of space to me.
2007-03-17 14:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for you. Sometimes guys will be having sex with one girl, while sleeping around with others too. You should have determined what you two were in the beginning. If sex was all you both wanted, it would hurt you so much. You now nned to decide it you want to keep seeing him, knowing he's seeing others? Good luck
2007-03-16 22:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously this man has no respect for others feelings! I realize that this hurts but honey--he aint worth it. How arrogant of him to even tell you that he was interested in another girl. Hes a creep--sounds like he just used you for sex! You need to find yourself someone that will respect you and not just use you!!
2007-03-16 22:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by chastity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋