My question is, if you knew someone was into you but was extremely shy- would you kiss them, or let them kiss you?
My situation is: This boy and me have been flirting alot lately. we walk down the hallway side-by side holding each others waist and stuff. We hug, Flirt- Things like that.
I know that he likes me, be he's EXTREMELY shy. He won't make a move on me until he knows that I want that move to be made. What Can I do?
Would you kiss the person that you liked first, or let him kiss you when he or she was ready?
2007-03-16 15:04:42 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if he is shy
dont expect to be kissed
he will probably love that you \made the first move and took the pressure off of him
make it really gentle, sweet, and not a big deal like a make-out
and he will let you know if he is not ready
2007-03-16 15:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if hes really shy usually all people need is a little push.
next time hes flirting with you, maybe if hes behind you just turn your head to the side and give him a kiss on the lips. don't be really quick about it. but dont be slow either, just give him a kiss like you've done it before. it'll make him feel secure, and make him more inclined to start wanting to kiss you.
2007-03-16 22:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by christy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are probably ready to bust a slob, but the hard thing is you have to wait. He probably know that you both like each other but maybe he isnt ready. Just wait because if he really wanted a kiss and he like you he would of been came out the shyness. So just wait.
2007-03-16 22:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by Dewanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If at the end of the day, he still hasnt kiss me and I sense that we have a great chemistry, I will give him a peck on the cheek or the side of his lips to show that I want that move to be made on his side and will wait to see what will happen. Good luck!
2007-03-16 22:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, so cute.
Go up to that kid randomnly in the hallway, smile and then lay a kiss smack on his lips.
He will absolutely love it because:
a) He is shy and it will take the pressure off him
b) He likes you and his #1 wish for the fairy is probably to kiss you
c) Guys think girls who are confident and know what they want and take charge are sexy (I know this from many a Yahoo! Answers)
2007-03-16 22:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be just like your boyfriend! Wow!! Deja-vu! But my
girlfriend knew what to do, and I'll pass it on to you.
After lunch at school, she and I were in the courtyard between
two school buildings, and she asked, "Are you ready?" I had
NO idea what she was talking about, but I said, "Sure!" She
put her books down on the bench, and so, I did, too. As I stood up again, she was just inches from my face, eyes closed, and a pucker on her lips. THAT WAS THE BEST
AND SWEETEST KISS I'VE EVER HAD !!
2007-03-16 22:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by SlownEasy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many shy people - guys out there and I am one of them . well, try to create an atmosphere for this romantic endeavor. not all people like to show affection and kiss in public even if both of you in such harmony and agreement
For some people there is a social etiquette they might believe it and try to observe it. maybe you can create the timing and place. suggestions --- think of reading prose or Porty, excerpt from romantic novel
2007-03-16 22:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by 400blows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both at the same time LOL
um only 2 choices to kiss
2007-03-16 22:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move in 10% of the way and then let him go the other 90%
2007-03-16 22:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd flirtatiously tell him it's okay to kiss me. Not in a way that makes him feel forced, but more of an inviting manner.
2007-03-16 22:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by aymay143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋