hey i want to talk to this girl who is really nice and friendly< she goes to my church. im 13 (14 in the summer) and she is 13 (14 soon also) I want to know what i can say that isn't stupid and that she would like. we see each other wednesdays. im homeschooled she is public schooled. i asked her what her name is, it's sarah! i really want to know thank you!
i can't actually ask a girl on a date till im 17 but i can hang out with them hellpppp!!
plus i need kinda step by step instructions please
i don't go to the movies often either. plus im 13 i can't drive and i can't take a girl with us to the movies anyway.
ps what i mean by step-by-step is like what exactly do i say to her... i am serious please
i kno i sound desperate but i need help
anyone who has had a crush knows about how it feels
please help
i am only wanting her as a friend for a couple of years. then ill ask her then when we're really good friends. ok thank you plz wait for additional details ok ty!
2007-03-16 14:35:01 · 14 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well ok i coudn't fit everything in the question. she is beautiful. she has two friends that at a retreat had a party. they invited me to it so i got to talk to them. so now i can just talk to them. should i make friends with them or not? then what should i say to them that would get sarah to talk to me? plz i need help. thanks
2007-03-16 14:35:12 · update #1
make friends wiht her friends it will help call her and talk about stuff u have in common.......
2007-03-16 14:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by Pom Pon Girl 161377 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe u need help im here lol! im ur age. So i guess if you cant go to the movies, talk to her at church a lot.. get to know her better. Then mabey you guys can hang out sometime. Do you play sports or does she? mabey you can go to eachothers games. And yes its good you know her friends, but dont flirt with them, only her lol. When you see her be like hey sarah, make sure you get to know eachother. Find out what shes interested in, mabey you guys can talk about something like that. Girls love it when you give her attention, so dont be shy! make the first move. Good Luck!
hope i helped im here if you have any questions=]
2007-03-16 14:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes things more difficult, when you don't go to the same school. School's a very social place, so maybe try a sort of Hang Out spot somewhere in the town where you guys live. Try not to stalk her or anything. It kind of creeps girls out. Like say that you see her at the ice cream place. Buy her an ice-cream. Walk up to her and just say something simple like "What's up?" at first she'll be like ok.... but she'll warm up to you. Sooner or later she'll be glancing your way.
2007-03-16 14:41:56 · answer #3 · answered by Bello Stella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you won't be able to administration human beings's words or strikes, plus a dating that continues to be using fact of threats or coercion is as stable as lifeless before everything. get rid of that woman, yet make your reasons for doing so common and sparkling, and then get the hell out of there. That way, if she does get the heart to off herself, then at very least God won't blame you for what she did to herself.
2016-10-01 01:28:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you talk about hows life at the public school and hopefully she'll give you longer answers than just "yes" and "no" and maybe you can pick up from her answers. and its just about whats happening in life that you should talk about and try not to make it seem like your totally desperate for a topic. i think your plan of being friends first is pretty sweet though.
2007-03-16 14:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by Banana Hero [sic] 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always talk to the girl friends, they are your inside eyes and ears, as for talking to sarah invite her to some sort of church activity.. . i.e Sunday School field trip, or maybe invite her to come over to dinner sometime and you two can just hang out.
~*Best of Luck*~
2007-03-16 14:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by R.R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you hang out with her, tell her that she has a very pretty hair or something like that. Talk to her about puppies or little cute things. Buy her ice cream or one of those little bracelets that has Jesus' name on it since you guys go to church. Also, try to find out what she likes and talk about it. Many things that you can do...
2007-03-16 14:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by c00kies 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well judging by your question you probably wont have long enough to ask her anything.
you are too young to get involved anyway, but you could talk to her and just be friends for now.
ask your mum if you can have a field trip to her school and you can see her there.
2007-03-16 14:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by Archie. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Stop projecting!
Take it one day at a time!
Be yourself...its hard work being someone else!
Enjoy whatever the day brings!
Pray to your Higher Power ( ther really IS one) to give tou the right attitude at each interaction..with EVERYONE..not just The Girl!
2007-03-16 14:40:32 · answer #9 · answered by bak2deefuture 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww!!! that is really cute. okay just be nice and talk to her when you do get a chance. bring out your sense of humor. dont lay it on too thick with compliments but give her one and see her reaction to it.
2007-03-16 15:09:17 · answer #10 · answered by summer girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋