This guy gave me a note saying like i've gotten to know you really well over the past year and i need to ask you somethin but i dont want to be a chicken and ask it on here. then the next day he was kinda mad at me for showing the note to some people cause i was freaked out. then he acted like nothing is wrong and just doesnt talk about it anymore. what do i do now? btw, im 13
2007-03-16 14:34:41 · 14 answers · asked by laurenn =) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think i should atleast talk to him about it. and was it really mean to show friends? i didnt mean to1 and i used to like him but not anymore.. so idk what to do!
2007-03-16 14:41:40 · update #1
It took a lot of courage for him to write you the note and slip it to you. When you showed it to other people you violated his confidence. In other words, he was trusting you to keep it to yourself and you blew it. He is assuming that you dont like him and that is why you showed the note so all he can do is act like nothing is wrong and I am kind of impressed that a boy your age would be able to control his behavior so well. He is same as you right? Anyway, if you are curious about what he had originally wanted to talk to you about here is what to do. Apologize to him for showing the note to your friends, tell him that you cant get it out of your mind, that you know you were wrong and it would mean a lot to you if he would forgive you and the two of you just start over. If you cant bear to apologize then just let everything stay like it is. Good luck -k-
2007-03-16 14:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by kbama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. first he had the guts to ask you in the first place, but if the note was supposed to be a secret between you two only. do you like this guy? if so, give him a similar note and see how he handles it - then you will know whats up.
2007-03-16 21:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by Roxxie Stikker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a note back and ask if he still wants to talk. Apologize for what you did. This is, if you want to continue the friendship.
2007-03-16 21:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait until he brings it up again. Put yourself in his postion though. I'm not trying to be mean/make you feel bad, but how would you have taken it??? Good luck with him. If you like him and think he wanted to ask you out, surprise him by asking him out.
2007-03-16 21:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by 569™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd do the same thing, if I gave a girl a note like that and she showed ti around, i'd be ticked off and never want to talk to her again. sorry, but it's the truth.
2007-03-16 21:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
all he was trying to do was to tell you he loves you. It wasnt wrong to show ur firneds cuz u were freakin out but he wasnt really ready for this yet so u should have really kept it to ur yourself. Now you should go talk to him and say u love him ( if u do) and say sorry that u showed it to your friends and explain to him why u did what u did.
2007-03-16 21:45:37 · answer #6 · answered by ohitsyou(= 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
write him a note: say u were excited bcuz u had never gotten a sweet note like that b4 (butter him up) and u wanted 2 tell ur friends _____ and that u like him like him or dont like him like him
b nice
2007-03-16 21:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by here2help! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would let it go he obviously wanted it to be between you and him and you ruined it by showing it to other people. he probably feels embarassed and you know what i don't blame him. just take it as a lesson learned and move on
2007-03-16 21:39:43 · answer #8 · answered by Juliaysha247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't show it to anyone else. It's your turn now. He made the first move, so the ball's in your court now.
2007-03-16 21:40:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he was shy why did u show it 2 others now he probaly wont ask u
2007-03-16 21:39:26 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Angelita29♥ILY♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋