My girlfriend went to new york on tuesday and was due back friday. She was coming back friday because she knew how uncomfortable i would be if she was there for all of her friends party's on friday night. So we talked and i said how i was afraid she was going to cheat on me or get drunk and do something stupid (she used to be an alcoholic) but she promised me she wouldnt do anything like that. So today she was due back but her flight got canceled and she called to tell me this at 10:00 this morning. She told me to call her when i got off of work at 2 and when i didshe didnt answer so i left her a few voicemails and i told her to call me because im worried about her. Well its 9:30 and i still havent heard from her, ive tried calling but no luck. I was talking to her friend and she just called and my girlfriend answered for like 2 seconds then hung up, all she said was she had bad reception cause of the storm. What should i do besides worry like crazy?
2007-03-16 14:29:01 · 21 answers · asked by chris j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Details... She answered for her friend but when i called immediately after she didnt answer... i called twice....
2007-03-16 14:41:20 · update #1
She isnt in the airport, she left to go out with her friends until tomorrow when her next flight is supposed to leave at 3 in the afternoon....
2007-03-16 14:42:17 · update #2
Wait till tomorrow and talk to her about this....
2007-03-16 15:00:00 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I live in CT and NEW YORK it's to far and the weather is bad and you know what in the airport the phone don't really work.yes I think she should of called you by now but you never no what's going on (AM not saying it in a bad way) just wait for her call I'm sure she's going to tell you everything that happen to her...I will not like to be stuck in an airport.........by the way if you don't trust her why are you with her...relax she'll call you soon.....hope she is fine and wish you the best
2007-03-16 14:40:50 · answer #2 · answered by Yari love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but it sounds to me like she's doing just what she said she wouldn't do. If she wasn't doing anything wrong then she would have called you back.But you can't constantly bring up to her what she did in the past! Believe me that's the quickest way to loose her forever, you have to have a little trust! But it doesn't sound good, her not returning your call. Maybe you need to do a lot of thinking ,while she's gone, about what you really want and expect in this relationship. Hope everything works out for you!
2007-03-16 14:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if you dont trust her then leave Im old enough to tell you this because I've been there done that. it is not in anyway worth it. I know its not popular to say and lot of women will crap dynamite over what I am about to say but. according to a recent survey from cosmo(yes the women's mag) that 60% of married women cheat,and approximately 75 % of attached women cheat. IF YOUR GUT IS SCREAMING it is for a reason. listen to it. and checkk it out with a female friend one who has no vested interest in wether your with her or not.
that way youd know if your paranoid.
trust has to be earned. not given away like candy.
2007-03-16 14:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by bolariphon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should calm your self down first, don't panic. The storm is getting a little easier now and im sure your girlfriend will be home soon..i have full faith in her. Just try and find something you like to do..like i play videogames to relieve stress and i also listen to music...just don't worry that's all. Go take a shower, that usually calms me down...but watever you do , don't start to draw any conclusions or start thinking over-the-top things. Pray to God that everything will be fine.
2007-03-16 14:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some faith and trust in her. Show her your love by showing her your trust. In suffocating a relationship you tend to create the problems that did not exist, yet all of a sudden they become real. Give her space and let her know how much you are missing her and awaiting her return.
2007-03-16 14:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may have a hangover, try calling her again around 2.30 am.
if she doesn`t answer and talk to you then she is probably still in the nite club getting plastered.
You shouldnt have let her go.
I just checked the airports on line, and looks like NO CANCELLATIONS out of La Guardia or JFK today, sorry pal.
2007-03-16 14:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by Archie. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a bad storm in NYC tonight so she may not be able to fly out because of it. Her phone may not work for that reason, too. Don't think the worst...yet.
2007-03-16 14:32:44 · answer #8 · answered by luna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actual have had that comparable difficulty with my husband. No biggy I devour with a fork mostly. as an occasion: mac and cheese and soups constantly. Its so i will get what ever i want and not the rest. Im controlling in my eating. only handle it haha. in case you care approximately her you will recover from it.
2016-10-18 21:22:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just trust her! if you like her then trust her. it might be hard but dont over think it, it will only make you more crazy and irrational. go to bed and when she gets home talk to her about it. if shes honest then she will tell you exactly what happened or didnt happen
2007-03-16 14:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by sufreshman14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt worry about it until someone says there is somethingwrong. Always trust everyone until you have a reason not to.
2007-03-16 14:34:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋