ok i was stupid and told the one i truly love that we were going on this thing called break, and i went with this other guy i thought i loved but realized it was a crush,and he dumped me and dated this other girl. but my ex[the one i love] seemed really upset about the break up and now he is dating some other girl, i cant tell if he still loves me, and i really want him back, he is my love. please help me...
2007-03-16 14:21:16 · 23 answers · asked by cheyzer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"If you love someone set them free, if it comes back then it was true, if it doesn't it was never meant to be."
You CAN'T force anyone to do anything.
2007-03-16 14:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by Siren 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
say ur sorry. yea it was really mean of u to dump that poor guy you really love, the one that has been there for u through thick and thin.Say how stupid u were, how wrong u were and realize you are my only love, nobody can replace u, take ur place because ur special in many ways and remember the first time our eyes met and u held close. I know that u will be my love, be close to my heart forever and ever. Lets forget the past and start a new. When i was with the other guy, i kept on thinking of u. I dream of u each day and think of u each night. I think the girl he is with right now is just a replacement that he lost u.
2007-03-16 21:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by ohitsyou(= 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh yes the "break". I myself am going through the same thing.My girlfriend or ex just told me the same thing and did the same thing you just did 3 weeks ago.I know this "new guy" wasnt going to work out and it isn't. Pretend Im the one you love for a second.Ok? Being you true love, I still have strong feeling for you and only dated some other women just to get my crazed mind off of you,my true love and just to try and make you jealous(and maybe some azz dont take it personal it ment nothing at ALL. NOTHING!!!) BUt Im really thininking of you all the time.Got it? Hope so. Just tell him how you were a fool and made a mistake.Stuff happens and it could of been you were just testing your self to see if you reall y love him or not.But hurry time is running out.Be the bigger person and confront him and for God's sake be HONEST!!!Now go!! waht are you waitn for call him tonight he's waitng for you.
PS: if he acts like a butthole at first it's only cause you hurt him. But tell him. and he'll come around.
2007-03-16 21:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by erkyoerk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can answer this one, something like this happend to me, first of all the only thing you can do is wait dont worry because when you do it just makes it worse and dosent help, you want someone that will wait for you and where you dont have to be yourself, I know it is probably really really hard for you,it was for me. I am shure they wont be dating forever but until then you have to be strong.look as hot as you can and act the way you did that attract him in the first place. If there isnt any way at this point to win him back, just go on thats all you can do dont let him drag you down and it was not your fault if he truely loved you he would have already come back or waited for you, you want someone like that and hey maybe there is someone waiting for you just around the corner. It will get better I promise, be strong girl!
2007-03-16 21:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by SQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's your mistake. You should have looked before you leaped.
What shows you wont do the same thing to him again when you meet someone you think you love only for him to dump you again.
Honey, he decided to move on, accept this fact and don't go back.
You decided to do the break up.
He's not just some kinda toy you can leave and pick up any time you want.
He's a human being with feelings.
Just take your time, 'phase' him out of your life and try to get another man.
...... And this time please dont break up with him because you thin you are in love with someone else.
That's not how love goes.
2007-03-16 21:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by ggoldiee23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but men or women would be really pissed by what you did. I dont know if you will ever get him back. You caused hurt and damage that might not be able to be repaired. Dont mess with his relationship now. You wouldnt want it done to you. Move on. You made a decision and now you have to let him go and live with what you decided. Just because you snap he is not going to just come back to you. Give him the same respect he gave you and then see what happens if his relationship were to end. In the meantime, find someone else. Dont mess with his head.
2007-03-16 21:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I recently was dumped and you know what I did? I quickly dated a guy he`s my boyfriend now, and I don`t like him as much as the guy who left me, I dated my boyfriend to get over the guy I really love, and now I`m a mess, my thought is you should talk to him even he has a girlfriend there a big posibilities he feels the same for you, and he`s with this girl just to forget about you, cause he was hurt. Talk things, you don`t lose anything, if he says yes you`re happy, if he says no, well then you don`t spend your life thinking about someone, who doesn`t want you and move on, you have nothing to lose :) good luck!!
2007-03-16 21:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Madison♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, I can't tell you that. He has an unsettled issue with you. You're part of the problem and you are not your best friend. He has seen you act foolishly and immature. What have you done to show him that you've changed, and matured?
That wasn't a figure of speech. What?
As soon as you can do that, he will look again. But, don't expect him to drop his current girl for you. Watch how he treats her. Watch and learn, I mean that, learn about him.
When you've changed, when he's ready, maybe you'll get some nerve up to show him you've changed, enough to say you are sorry for the pain you gave him and the time you wasted. Maybe you'll mean it, maybe you won't. Maybe he'll believe you, maybe he won't. Only time will tell.
2007-03-16 21:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you started this. If you are truly regretful, tell him how you feel and the mistake you made. If he doesn't want to come around, then maybe he isn't the one for you after all. Date someone else and see what happens. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-03-16 21:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by conni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is ask him - one time only if he wants to get back together. If he says no then let him go and try not to repeat your mistake. Quite often we think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence and more often than not it's more yellow. Stick by the man you love and stop letting your eyes flutter with others.
2007-03-16 21:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by Dee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how old you are but sometimes we have to go through trials and tribulations in our life. I'm not sure if you can get him back to you. He may be looking at this as though you've done him a favor. You cannot make someone care about you. Just as much as you cannot force yourself to care about someone that wants you to care for them. Take this as a life experience and move on with your life. If it is meant to be, you will someday be back with him if not then you may find someone whom you care about much more and will feel the same way for you.
2007-03-16 21:26:42 · answer #11 · answered by Laura C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋