my ex and i broke up two weeks ago and still want to be friend. i still love him and he said he love me and cared about me still also. but he could not deal with the stress anymore. and that him and i would problem never be a couple again. but we still want to have sex. its great sex between us. i guess the question is. do you think he will want to get if we continue to have sex. thats not what im looking for just wondering if it would happen?
2007-03-16 14:20:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if i was not clear on my question. im sorry i guess i want to know although i still love him if i keep F***ing him will i fall more in love with him and do you think we would want me back.
at one point we were talking of getting married and having a baby.
2007-03-16 14:35:48 · update #1
he'll probably want the sex, but not you. it's better to just move on and not keep hoping for this to change. good luck.
2007-03-16 14:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by eyebtired 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want my honest answer and opinion, I predict there will be some spinning around over the next few years and you are allowing your feelings to control what you do. Without a love and commitment deep enough to call yourselves (mutually) bf/gf, I think that sex is not only something I would consider "immoral," but also something that will allow drama to continue. I do not think that YOU (as a woman) can psychologically (over time) seperate the person you have sex with from the person you want a serious relationship with. This WILL create drama for you and the drama will worsen if and when you find the person you love enough to have a long-lasting relationship with.
Guys are much different (a few girls too) (I am one of a few exceptions). Sex can be viewed as simply a recreational activity for us; a love attachment is not necessary for guys (still an "immoral" act in my opinion). This is why so many guys get girls to think they love them - it manipulates a way to get sex (this practice seems to be slowly, but surely getting equally distributed across gender lines). I think that this is what he is doing with you (manipulating you so that he can be "closer than just friends" with you) and for your own good, please don't let him succeed.
I discourage anyone from having someone who that "closer than just friends" with because of the drama it causes and immoral nature of it.
2007-03-16 21:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by zgm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything has a beginning and an end. Once the Beginning is activated the time is always moving forward towards the end. We can elect to make that time in between go either fast or slow. When one wants to journey again to the beginning while at the end, he or she can, just activate the power of LOVE as this knows no time and only transcends through time itself. -Richard S Drapo
I suggest you give this a try with your boyfriend and let him read this quote also.
RD
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2007-03-16 21:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by Richard D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just useing u for the SEX
2007-03-16 21:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by Country 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you continue to have sex. they have a saying that goes, "Why buy the cow if you get the milk for free". Think about it.
2007-03-16 21:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope this is the American Dream sex whenever with no strings attached just sex.
2007-03-16 21:23:54 · answer #6 · answered by $~*Fearless*~$ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he just wants you for the sex , if your comfortable with that go ahead but dont expect him to take you back
2007-03-16 21:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by BajaRick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it could happen . but i think if you 2 take a break it may work out for you
2007-03-16 21:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your actual question is not a complete properly worded sentence and therefore has no known meaning. That will make your question impossible to answer. Try correcting the wording into something that makes sense, please.
2007-03-16 21:23:32 · answer #9 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you might get into and endless suffering and a bunch of "yes let's try or better not", you will end bored and drained...
2007-03-16 21:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by jljimenezs30 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋