i love my boyfriend to death and hes a great guy but his friends are a totally diffferent story. they spank my butt and try to throw stuff down my shirt and everytime my boyfrieid isnt looking they try to make a move on my me. im fourteen and some of them are 16 and 17 so its sorta creepy. ive tried talking to my boyfriend about it but i think his friends intimidate him and he is afraid to stand up to them help please
2007-03-16 14:13:48 · 13 answers · asked by Bella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s i have stood up to them many times it works for one of them but the rest of them just say "ohh fiesty" or "i love it when they put up a fight"
2007-03-16 14:28:54 · update #1
p.s i have stood up to them many times it works for one of them but the rest of them just say "ohh fiesty" or "i love it when they put up a fight"
2007-03-16 14:28:55 · update #2
If you're standing your ground and your boyfriend isn't doing his part you need to get rid of him. You don't need that.
2007-03-16 14:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by LT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the things bf/gfs need to require from each other is protection and you're not getting any protection. Don't let that continue. Those guys aren't his friends by any good definition of the term and a guy who keeps such people around him is not a sound thinker when it comes to relationships.
2007-03-16 14:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady you need to stand up for yourself. Let them know that you aren't fu*king around and that it makes you very uncomfortable and that you'd hate to have to do something about it. If they want to get smart with you just raise an eyebrow and say two little words: Sexual Harassment.
2007-03-16 14:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your boyfriend about it.tell him that if there gunna be doing that then your not gunna hang out with them anymore.stick up for yourself,your a girl,you dont need any guy to do that for you.tell them to stop.push them away and if they dont stop then walk away from them.leave that group and find some of YOUR friends to chill with.
2007-03-16 14:23:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him they are trying to make a move on you, as a rule most guys dont mess with thier friends girl, if he dosent care what they are doing , then tell him you dont wnat to be around them at least not alone
2007-03-16 14:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the friends, the next time they do something, it will come with a police report...
2007-03-16 14:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your bf doesn't want to stand up to them,you have to.tell them off.they all seem like a bunch of jerks if they do that to you.give them some good comebacks.
2007-03-16 14:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your bf that you are uncomfortable around his friends and dont hang out with them. if he respects you then everything will be fine.
2007-03-16 14:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by sufreshman14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur bf u don't want 2 hang around w/ them anymore. he can hang with them w/ or w/o u! just walk away! that's harrassment & it's illegal!!!
2007-03-16 14:21:13 · answer #9 · answered by here2help! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what those kids are doing(the 17 one is almost an adult) sounds like sexual harrasment, call the police or talk to your parents... seriously.
2007-03-16 14:23:07 · answer #10 · answered by Santrago 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋