well we met online are the same age and have met once, it was fine but that was 2 weeks ago he had asked me out 4 times before but i was always busy and we live 45mins away. we speak online nearly everyday but i'm worried that i will make a fool of myself or not be the person he remembered i was a few weeks back. i really like him i just hope he feels the same tonight was the first time he sent me a few x's on msn and when we met for the first time it ended with a hug and a text from him saying he had fun but what if i don't live up to expectations? what r the signs i should look out for out for?
2007-03-16 14:07:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just relax, be yourself and use your own judgement on how it's going. All people are different so it's no good asking people on here what signs to look out for unless they know the guy you are talking about. Just relax and have fun!
2007-03-16 14:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have him hooked well enough! He's going on a 2nd date isn't he? I was exactly like you when i started out with my gf - we met online too despite everyone saying it'll never work.
If i remember correctly we emailed non-stop & were on msn a lot before we met.I actually went to the restaurant where we were meant to meet earlier so i could see her - sad i know! I used the xxx's on msn all the time - so that's a good start.
The way i look at it is expectations are just that - expectations.You cannot beat the sheer joy of meeting the person for real at long last.He'll be just glad to see you.Best of luck to you both!
Despite what ppl say online romances do work - we're together just over a year.
2007-03-16 23:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel just be yourself if its meant to be all will fall into place if he cares about you, there is nothing you can do wrong hold your head up quit worrying and smile and have a good time. I happen to meet my husband on line and we have been married almost a year I knew the first time we met.
2007-03-16 21:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by wildrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steady on!
What signs are you talking about??
Calm down! It is the second date and you ARE going to make mistakes - don't worry about it.
THe only person you may possess that amount of reverence for is god and hopefully you won't be dating him for a long while...
Relax, take deep breaths and just be yourself and be proud of that... and remember YOU need to see if you want to meet him again - it does work both ways..!
Good luck.
2007-03-20 16:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a sign he likes you. He asked you out on a second date.
Unless you are going to pay both times and he is just using you for a free meal, I'd say you have a suitor. Just relax.
2007-03-16 21:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, be yourself...You don't try to live up to anyone's expectations, that's how you end up getting into some miserable relationship!! You go and be yourself, because that's who he is really gonna get in a relationship with. Instead of being worried if you will measure up why not see if he is really what you want. Looking to eager to please is a definite "no-no" and such a turn-off.
Good luck.
2007-03-16 21:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have way too much anxiety to go on a date. Relax and enjoy the evening. Don't try to second guess fate.
2007-03-16 21:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by solotrovo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋