For one day in my life i thought i was truely inlove with a guy i thought that i had found the perfect guy, that he was the sweetest thing on earth. I WAS SO INLOVE, he asked me to be his girlfriend yesterday and i said yea. I was so happy i had a great time, but then i think he has another girlfriend, we go to different schools so i dont know if he does or not but on his page it said that he was engaged to this girl. ='( and i dont know now. does he love me or was i just stupid to belive that he really loved me? now what do i do? brake up with him after a day?
2007-03-16 13:32:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont know if i should ask him because if i am wrong i'll feel bad about it. =(
2007-03-16 13:33:45 · update #1
WELL I KNOW HE'S NOT REALLY ENGAGED BCUZ WERE ONLY IN HIGHSCHOOL
2007-03-16 13:37:50 · update #2
AND IT WROTE THE GIRLS NAME ON IT AND IT WASNT ME ='(
2007-03-16 13:42:02 · update #3
Honesty is always best. Ask him, but do it nicely. Dont ask by accusing. If he truely loves you he'll understand.
2007-03-16 13:36:57 · answer #1 · answered by LD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cmawn kiddo. If you have some info that indicates he has another g/f, then ask him nicely to clarify..and if possible get the name of the girl and ask around. After all, you dint suspect until you found some evidence, right?
If you do NOTHING, that in itself is a DECISION : the decision to do NOTHING. But to live with that DECISION means either :
1. you know its false info, or
2. You dont care if it's true.
If 1 or 2 is NOT the case, you are going to eat your heart out with fear, resentment, suspicion and whatever, and your relationship is DEAD anyway.
After all, you're not married to the guy, and your relationship is all of ONE DAY OLD! I am sure that you COULD recover if it's true an you walk away.
Anyway, what's wrong with having two g'f's? You might even like the other girl????
2007-03-16 20:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by bak2deefuture 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few things:
Not that I don't believe in love at first site but it's really hard to love someone after only one day of dating.
If you really do care for him though then you must talk to him. To be in love is to be honest, so ask him about it and tell you how you feel. If he cares for you too, then he'll be honest. Otherwise, you dont need him.
2007-03-16 20:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by ClooneyIsAGenius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been goin out for 1 day?? that is just 1 day how can you be inlove after 1 day...sorry that is ridiculous....you aren't inlove you are jsut in strong like that is how it is for the first few weeks or month...you are not in love and if you think that he has another girl ask him or ask the girl you think that he is with...and if you don't no her then just talk to him about it....
good luck and gob bless...
2007-03-16 20:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by bballgurlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I often date multiple girls (don't waste time judging me -- I'm trying to give you my honest opinion). I also am an incurable romantic, and love to beieve that one of the girls will be "the one". But, frankly, picking one girl from many is destined for failure -- the only proper and "real" relaionships I've ever had started with her as the only one in my life. Otherwise, it's started off with lies -- and those lives NEVER go away.
2007-03-16 20:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by lazer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all ask him face to face. Tell him why his page said that he was engaged. If he doesn't give you an answer then that means he is. Just do that before you end everything.
2007-03-16 20:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by star86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you'll know is if you ask him about what you saw on his site. I doubt he'd be engaged in high school. Make sure of the info before you do anything rash..
2007-03-16 20:43:18 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww hun i feel so bad for you!!! damn. i hope he doesn't. i know that you don't wanna ask if he does and then feel like a jerk if he says no. i mean, even if you do ask, and he says no, he could be lying since he may have already lied about having another girl. i think that you should just ask him, as much as it may hurt. ask him upfront and tell him why you think he does(the whole page thing). if he tries to make you feel dumb about asking, then hes a jerk and doesnt deserve you!!! haha. seriously, just be upfront and figure out if he has one. if he does, then dump him or tell him its either you or her. if he says he doesn't, keep an eye on him! good luck hun
2007-03-16 20:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by noname 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all in the asking....be casual and silly and funny about it. But ask though or else you'll feel silly for not asking. #1 you'll catch him lying so early on and then your better off knowing now or #2 he'll tell ya the 411 and you'll know that it was in the past and you'll carry on...good luck.
2007-03-16 20:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by mrs.m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love after just one day of being his girl? Just ask him about the page. Be clever and say "I didn't know we were engaged"...something like that...go ask him girl!
2007-03-16 20:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by YaShen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋